What should I do if my husband’s parenting philosophy conflicts with my own?

Some time ago, a reader left me a message and talked about the conflict with her husband. She was very distressed. She said: Recently, my husband and I have been quarreling a lot because of the education of our eldest son. To make a long story short, for example, tonight the child had to serve the meal by himself. Just now. The cooked porridge was a bit hot, but he insisted on serving it to us. My approach was to stand in front of him to ensure his safety and let him try it once, but my husband was very fierce…

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Why does the United States dominate the world? You can’t be dissatisfied with what they did for the children!

Not long ago, based on the idea of ​​​​\”live and learn\”, Doudehui took part in the 2018 graduate entrance examination. There is an English-Chinese translation question in the English test. When translated, it looks like this: A fifth-grade student needs to complete an assignment. The content of the assignment is to choose his or her future career from a job list. He drew the line at \”astronaut\”, but…

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How to cultivate children\’s sense of language enlightenment from an early age?

Why do some children read the same text aloud with full emotion while others just read the words? Is it because they have different personalities? Do those children who memorize the same ancient poems have a harder time than others have memory problems? When writing essays, some children squeeze out words like toothpaste and their words are dry. Is it because they have no desire to express themselves? Do English reading, those who can read according to the above…

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A sentence that is completely wrong, but parents always like to say it to their children

After school in the afternoon, almost all the children in the school had left. I hadn’t seen my daughter yet, and I didn’t have my mobile phone with me. Standing in front of the school, I almost burst into tears. Later, my son pointed to the small shop opposite and said \”sister\”. I followed my son\’s little hand and looked over, and I saw my daughter\’s figure. There was a fire in my heart, and I rode over. I walked forward. Just as I was about to speak, I noticed that next to her…

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Thinking determines destiny, cultivating children\’s growth mindset is the king of education

Mindset, the way we view ourselves, determines our future to a large extent. When I was chatting with Rooney recently, I discovered that he has a mindset that he doesn’t need to practice hard because he thinks he’s smart (for details, see Why Don’t Praise Your Children for Being Smart?). I was very worried and thought about how to correct his thinking. What I\’m thinking about right now is, first, never again…

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A 2-year-old boy has a date core stuck in his esophagus. He must learn this life-saving method

A few days ago, a 2-year-old boy in Guangxi accidentally swallowed the date core while eating dates and it got stuck in his esophagus. The location of the jujube stone is very special. In the end, the doctor had to kneel on the ground to remove the jujube stone. I am grateful for the greatness of this doctor and grateful for the luck of this child. In life, choking and suffocation are the two major causes of fatal injuries to infants and young children. Among them, choking (gas…

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How old does a baby have to be to use chopsticks? I didn’t expect that there are so many taboos for infants and young children using tableware!

Hello, my son is now 2 years and 3 months old. He usually likes to eat directly with his hands. Sometimes he knows how to hold a spoon, but he never can hold chopsticks. I bought him training chopsticks before, but he didn\’t like using them either. I would like to ask, at what age do children generally know how to use chopsticks? When is the best time to teach? Impatient parents always hope that their babies can quickly master life skills…

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Does your child always make you lose control of your emotions? After understanding these four words, your troubles will be reduced by half

A few days ago, a mother in the reader group talked about an annoying thing and asked for help: Her eldest baby is more than three years old, and her second baby is less than one year old. Recently, the eldest baby has been very hostile to his younger brother, hitting him at every turn, and even They always say: \”Throw away my brother, beat him to death, I don\’t want my brother anymore.\” Whenever Dabao makes a fuss, the adults will say: \”Dabao is too bad, no younger brother is good.\”…

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How to cure chilblains in babies? Be careful that you become the \”accomplice\” of chilblains…

Chilblains are a \”destroyer\” to a baby\’s appearance. Not only that, they are itchy, painful and difficult to heal. As long as the area \”occupied\” by chilblains is very uncomfortable, let alone the baby\’s tender skin, it will only make mothers and fathers feel distressed and overwhelmed. Today, Doudehui will talk about how to relieve and prevent chilblains, and what parents should do best when dealing with chilblains in babies…

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Mother acted violently and blocked the high-speed rail: please \”respect yourself\” in front of your daughter!

Yesterday, I accidentally saw this news: A woman stood at the door of a high-speed train, intending to prevent the train door from closing. Her husband, who would be waiting for 10 seconds to come, ignored the obstruction of the security inspector and flight attendants, and acted confidently throughout the entire process. In the animated picture, the woman\’s daughter is so embarrassed that she obviously doesn\’t know how to face this panic situation. The behavior of parents hides the future of their children…

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