The first child flipped over, the second child’s hands spread out.” The mother of the second child is a person who has truly seen strong winds and waves.

I recall that when my eldest daughter was preparing to go to school, I once sought advice from my best friend at her house. My best friend was already the mother of her second child. The eldest child, like mine, had just entered elementary school, and the second child had just learned to walk and was at the age to explore the world. Suddenly, I saw her second child picking up things on the ground and stuffing them into her mouth. I quickly said, \”Hey, my second child seems to be picking up things on the ground to eat. Keep an eye on it!\” My girlfriend…

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By giving birth to a second child this way, the mother can save 3 years of hard work!

With the opening of the two-child policy, more and more families are beginning to consider having a second child, but what is the most appropriate interval between two children? My cousin left a message in the background and saw different opinions: It is better to have a baby in a few years, and the older one knows how to be humble and give in to the younger one. It\’s better to have children earlier. With two kids at the same time, it will be tiring in the first few years, but worry-free in the later years. In fact, judging from the actual situation, the birth of Dabao and Erbao…

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Why should I buy a pen with a hole in the cap for my child? When buying stationery, parents must pay attention to this detail

When buying pens for your children, have you noticed that many pen caps have small holes? Have you ever thought about what the small hole in the pen is used for? Don\’t underestimate this small hole, because it can \”save lives\” at critical moments! The first time I saw this knowledge point, I felt that although it was small, it was very meaningful. I would like to share it with you today. After posting the article, Xiaochuan and I will both go to the hospital…

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To the naughty kid: Why should I rely on you?

Xuetang Jun: Recently there was a story about a naughty child grabbing an egg roll from a stranger on the subway. The parent actually told the child: Ask for it after eating. Xuetangjun was also shocked. Today I just want to talk about this topic. Although they are in the minority, even if they meet one, they feel like they have met one of the \”best\” and they can complain for years~ As a negative example, keep reminding yourself, don\’t be like this parents…

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I had such a bad temper when I was less than 1 year old, but it will get better when I grow up|If you take care of it now, it will be easy in the future

The 8 or 9-month-old baby has always been very well-behaved, but suddenly one day his temper got worse, and he started yelling and making a fuss if he didn\’t go his way. This sudden violent temper often catches parents off guard. They need to take care of it. Otherwise, if such a young child has such a big temper, what will he do when he grows up? But how to manage it? He\’s so young and can\’t speak yet. Can he understand why he\’s being reasoned with? &nbs…

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Children are hyperactive, impulsive, inattentive, sloppy, procrastinating and love to cause trouble. The root cause may be here.

In every class, there are probably children who are distracted and impulsive, unruly, unconstrained, love to cause trouble, and lack organization. Most of these children have poor academic performance and are called \”problem children\”. In school, as long as there are two or three such children in a class, it can turn a happy classroom into a battlefield and torture a kind and good teacher to exhaustion. At home, just…

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How parents deal with the \”little thing\” of babies throwing things around shows their wisdom

Babies throwing things away is a headache for many parents. It\’s a small thing to break things, but it\’s embarrassing to hurt others. How to guide such behavior scientifically and effectively is a difficult problem for parents. Objective view, graded response, and positive guidance are wise choices for parents. Haohao is over 2 years old and loves throwing things. If you don’t want to play with the toy anymore, just throw it against the wall…

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A 3-year-old girl fell into a bucket of boiling water. How can the baby prevent burns in winter?

When winter comes, do you feel cold every day? The difference is that in the south, the wind is freezing outside, and water dripping into ice indoors; while in the north, there is heavy snow outside, but the indoors are as warm as spring. It is true that \”the north relies on heating during the winter, while the south relies on a healthy body.\” With low weather temperatures, everyone\’s heating needs increase, and the number of burn injuries is also increasing year by year, especially…

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I cried after reading these stories about stay-at-home dads…

Last week, I collected stories about stay-at-home dads taking care of their babies in our circle of friends, and received many heart-warming stories. As I watched, my eyes became moist again. Today I would like to share with you that in fact, in many cases, it is not that fathers cannot do it, but that there are still too many people in this society who view men with children through colored glasses. Tao Tao\’s dad: 36 years old. He has been raising a child for more than two years. His annual income is…

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