A few days ago, a mother left me a message and said: She found that her son has become like a little girl recently. He always clings to me and cannot push me away. He also talks like a girl. She asked whether she was spending time with her child at home these days and pampering him too much? To be honest, there are really many parents who think this way. So I often see messages like this: \”Do boys need to be beaten more…
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The \”golden rule\” for disciplining children, what all good parents do
Good morning everyone, welcome to open the morning reading. Make a little progress every day, and persist in bringing about big changes. Today is November 21, 2017. The book we want to share with you is \”Positive Discipline: How to Discipline Children Effectively without Punishing or Pampering\”. The author Jane Nelson is the founder of the American Positive Discipline Association and an outstanding psychologist and educator. This book is best-selling in the United States 4…
What should I do if my child steals money to buy snacks and then lies?
Recently, a mother sent me a WeChat message to ask for help. Here’s what happened: Today, her children took money from home to go to the store to buy snacks. They went with a child on the street and lied to me that the child’s grandma bought them for them. ~ Then I told the kid that I gave him the money to buy a brush for washing pots ~ I was surprised, very surprised, I didn’t know what to do, I wanted to beat him hard…
Child, sometimes I would rather you not be kind
In the past few days, \”Jiang Ge\’s murder case in Tokyo\” has frightened mothers. On November 3, 2016, Jiang Ge, a 24-year-old Qingdao girl studying in Japan, was stabbed ten times by her ex-boyfriend Chen Shifeng in order to protect her friend Liu Xin. She was stabbed to death and fell at the door of her rented apartment. But 294 days later, Liu Xin, who was protected by his friends with his life, faced Jiang for the first time…
If you want to cultivate your children\’s financial intelligence, first check whether you have a healthy view of money.
Today\’s parents attach great importance to cultivating their children\’s various \”quotients\”: IQ, EQ, reverse quotient, financial quotient… The so-called financial quotient refers to the ability to manage money, especially the ability to make investment returns. It includes two aspects of ability: one is the ability to correctly understand money and the laws of money; the other is the ability to correctly apply money and the laws of money. The concept of financial intelligence was first proposed in 1999…
Children who do not respect their parents will not know how to respect anyone.
One day, I was at the breakfast shop at the entrance of the community. A father and daughter were sitting there eating breakfast. The little girl, about eight or nine years old, suddenly lost her temper loudly. Her father just said a few words and asked her not to make trouble here. Unexpectedly, the little girl became even more angry. He scolded: \”Don\’t worry about it, you are just a bitch.\” \”Where did you learn to curse?\” Dad was also angered…
In this way, the efficacy and functions of yam can be exerted to the greatest extent and help the baby. This article explains them all in detail.
1. Can yam water be drunk only when a cold or cough is about to recover? Can I drink it when I’m in the middle of a cough? 2. How many months old can a baby start drinking yam water? Can adults drink it when they have a cold? 3. How much water should be added to boil dried yam? Can I give it to my baby multiple times? 4. If the baby doesn’t like to drink tasteless water, can sugar be added to the yam water or can the yam water be used to brew milk? …
Can my baby’s allergies be cured? When the time comes for desensitization treatment, you must act promptly
Last year, I shared with you that OK had a severe allergic reaction, so I took OK for an allergen test. The test results showed that OK had an allergic constitution and was allergic to dust mites. Also because of his allergic constitution, OK\’s allergic rhinitis has been bothering him. So during the National Day holiday, I took OK to the hospital for desensitization treatment. After coming back, I went with some friends…
If my child has a fever, do I need to wake him up at night to give him medicine? Will it burn out the brain?
Let science answer it. Under normal circumstances, there is no need to wake up children to give medicine. The seasons have changed recently, and the temperature has been hot and cold. There are many children with colds and fevers. There are also some infectious diseases that make us more worried and anxious. Especially at night, once the child\’s temperature is measured and he has a fever, we start to struggle with whether to wake him up and take antipyretics. After checking a lot of information, I found…
Whether you have a good relationship with your children or not, you will understand in one read: The 2017 National Parent-Child Relationship Report is released
In traditional Chinese social habits, many parents lack correct communication methods when getting along with their children, and often resort to \”stick education.\” Children\’s lives have been under the control of their parents for a long time, lacking independent space, and their mental health is not paid attention to. \”Stick education\” harms children throughout their lives! Let’s first look at two examples of people who grew up under stick education: Occasionally…