What the hell is a child \”getting angry\”? How to \”defeat the fire\” for him?

If a child has a thick tongue coating, excessive eye mucus, yellow urine, or constipation, we will naturally say that the child is angry, and then start to think of ways to calm the child\’s anger. But what does getting angry mean? Is it a disease? How to deal with it scientifically and effectively? I collected some information and shared it with sisters in need. In the past few days, Xiaochuan\’s mental state has not been very good, and he has no appetite for meals…

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When a baby loses his temper, the adults can do nothing to deal with it?

My best friend said: \”My two-and-a-half-year-old son has been acting like a little devil recently. He will lie on the ground screaming and crying when he disagrees with me. The elders in the family take turns trying to persuade him, but he cries harder and harder. The older the baby is, the harder it is to take care of him.\” I feel a little exhausted.\” I have also felt this way since Su Bao turned two years old. Later, I read two books recommended to me by Su Bao, an early education teacher, and explored on my own…

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Tooth decay, eczema, head tilt, and delayed speech are not terrible, but ignoring them can be fatal.

Many parents have said this, \”It\’s okay, the baby is still small now, it will be fine if he is older!\” If the baby is late in teething, late in learning, or a little thinner, as long as the physical development indicators are within the normal range, it will not matter. There are too many problems. However, if the baby has tooth decay, eczema, sleeps with his head tilted, or cannot speak, parents need to pay attention. These problems really cannot wait! …

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Understand this and your relationship with your children will get better and better

After dinner, Xiao Yuer practiced the piano in the room. He played with great interest and high spirits. Suddenly, he played a wrong note, and after a while, he made several wrong notes. I couldn\’t help it anymore and walked up to him: Xiaoyu, you played it wrong just now. He didn\’t even raise his head or pay any attention to me. He continued to play, but his interest was no longer as high as before. Next, another mistake…

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Your \”good intentions\” are killing your children\’s creativity

I had a dinner date with a friend two days ago, and the conversation turned into a \”psychological consultation.\” My friend works in a university that is envied by many people. She has winter and summer vacations every year, but she says she is extremely anxious. She is more tired than anyone else. Lectures, scientific research, administration, and further studies all have to be compromised, and she may not be able to succeed. Well done. What made her even more uncomfortable was that with this step-by-step rhythm, she simply couldn\’t…

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Shaking his head grandpa cures cerebral palsy or causes cerebral palsy? Complaint from a mother

Today when I was wandering around on the Internet, I was unexpectedly shocked by a short video. The world is full of wonders, but the baby is so pitiful. What happened was that a month ago she took her baby to the Hubei Province Maternity and Child Care Clinic for pneumonia. The doctor told her that the baby had developmental delays and was asked to be taken to the rehabilitation department. So the mother took the baby to the rehabilitation department on the second floor for treatment by Shaking Grandpa. After a week of rest at home…

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This parenting knowledge is actually wrong, correct it immediately

Ever since I gave birth to a baby, I have always had experienced childcare experts from all walks of life come to me and tell me how I should take care of my baby. Although I also know that everyone has good intentions. However, some outdated parenting experiences are inevitable. If you continue to follow the wrong parenting methods, you will only harm your baby. So, what are some common misconceptions about parenting that confuse everyone? Let\’s take a look together. Baby food supplements must…

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Education: If you sow melons, you will reap melons; if you sow beans, you will reap beans.

On a midsummer evening, after returning from a walk, I took a shower, blew the air conditioner in the room, listened to guqin music, read a book, and enjoyed a rare and comfortable time. From the kitchen came the sound of running water, the clatter of dishes, and the son\’s passionate singing. At that moment, I was suddenly very moved. This is how my son spent this day: I got up at around six o\’clock in the morning and went to play two…

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Stay away from junk books! Five principles to help you choose good children’s picture books and stories

I still remember that in 2011, when Rooney was just born, there were very few picture books available on the market. Most of them were the following five children\’s books with simple pictures, rough printing, and strong didactic stories. Childhood, the leader of the National Story Mom Volunteer Group Teacher Xinmeng calls them junk books (by the way, I also bought them at the beginning): 1 The first type of junk books are books mass-produced by computers. A little bit of art…

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When is the best time to drink milk after 1 year old? How to choose milk? Here is the most objective answer

One year old is like a watershed in a baby\’s diet. He can eat family meals, eat salt, and eat many foods that were not allowed before one year old. However, as the food ban here is lifted, the question of what kind of milk to drink comes again. . Logically speaking, in European and American countries, children drink fresh milk directly after one year old. Which milk to drink is not a parenting problem. However, in China, due to milk quality issues…

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