Bai Yansong: Son, where do you get your confidence? Without exams, how much do you have to fight for?

Many students think that it is not only by going to school that they can live the life they want. I can work part-time and run a stall… But the reality is that many people really have no other way except going to school. . Below are some views of CCTV celebrity Bai Yansong on exams and reading. I hope everyone will take a good look at his ideas and encourage each other! If you don\’t study, how can you compete with others? Wealth or wisdom? Experience or connections? Do you have these? In the current social situation, the vast majority of people at the bottom have never read a book. Those who are successful are really unique, and depending on their emotional intelligence, it makes no big difference whether they have read or not. Even if you study for 10,000 years, you won\’t be able to compete with Han Han, but if he doesn\’t go to school, he will be even more fierce than us. Many people say that classes are now more rigid, but in fact they were even more rigid before. So the college entrance examination really ended that rigidity. No matter what your status is, if your score is reliable, you can always go out. \”Can you beat the rich second generation without the college entrance examination?\” This is very factual. Although there are many problems with the college entrance examination, at least it is still the fairest and most promising path. But children don\’t think so. All roads lead to Rome. It doesn\’t matter if you can\’t go to college. You will definitely be able to do well in the future, and you won\’t necessarily do worse than those classmates who are going to college. Child, where do you get your confidence? If you don’t take exams or go to school, how much more do you have left to fight for? Examination is not the only way, but it is the fairest way! Although many people think that the examination system is unreasonable, as one examination determines life, which makes children lose their fun and freedom, and also limits their creativity. However, it is the exam that gives most children a chance to compete fairly. No matter where you come from, what you look like, or who your parents are, as long as your grades are good enough, you will have the opportunity to go to a good university and learn more. , meet more people and live a relatively good life. Everyone is equal in the face of grades, which is an important part of changing the destiny of many children. At every class reunion, when talking about their experiences over the years, although most students have not lived the ideal life they wanted, they all believe that the college entrance examination has changed their lives. No matter what university I went to or what job I found later, it was the college entrance examination that allowed me to see greater possibilities. It was also the college entrance examination that made me always believe that hard work will always pay off. It is true that those students who failed the college entrance examination or did not take the college entrance examination have also lived a good life through their own efforts, but compared with the chances of going to college, they are much smaller. If there is a ready-made opportunity like an exam in front of you, why not try your best to try it instead of taking a long way around? If you don’t like exams, what are your strengths? Some children don’t know where their confidence comes from. They think that even if they don’t study well or do poorly on exams, they can still live the life they want. Where does this confidence come from? Is it your overall quality or your knowledge? As a child from most ordinary families, you don’t have to compete for exams, but you have to compete with others for quality and knowledge. Where is your confidence? If you can\’t do well in the exam, why do you think you can do it? Examination is a screening mechanism. On this road, some people will definitely get through and some will not. Some people say, II am not naturally suitable for studying, but I have outstanding abilities in other aspects. I am good at business, I have high emotional intelligence, etc., and I have great opportunities for future development. A person\’s poor study reflects more of his comprehensive abilities, such as his endurance, his will, his study habits, his ability to reflect, and his ability to resist frustration. Using natural suitability as an excuse, I\’m afraid it\’s not quite appropriate. After all, you have devoted more than ten years to studying this matter, and your performance is very poor in this matter. Why do you think you can do it in other aspects? In the past, we naively believed that those who studied well were nerds and could do nothing but study. However, later we found out that we were wrong. Most students who study well not only do not stay idle, but also perform outstandingly in other aspects. They apply their learning ability to all aspects. More and more, we find that not only are we unable to compete with others in learning, but we are also far behind in other aspects. Many people are talking about the futility of studying, but no parent wants their children to be poor students. In everyone\’s heart, they still feel that there is nothing wrong with studying well. In our opinion, exams have shortcomings of one kind or another, but for most children, they are the most worthwhile thing to fight for. Although, for some people, exams are not necessarily the best way to go, for most kids, it is. My child, I hope you will work hard at the age when you should learn the most. In the future, you will thank yourself now!