I came across an article in Jianshu a few days ago. What arouses my interest is not the content of the article, but the comments. It is rare to see 95% of the comments on an article opposing the author\’s point of view. The general idea of the article is that parents are human beings and make mistakes. Although they are not so perfect, they are \”parents after all\”. Don\’t complain and hate your parents, but learn to be grateful…
Category: infancy
infancy
Children\’s rebellious psychology stems from your disapproval
Picture: Good Will Hunting After my friend resigned from his original employer, he went to work in an insurance company. She called her mother and mentioned it casually. My mother immediately objected, denied, and suppressed her, saying: \”Your personality is not suitable, and insurance companies are all liars. It would be safer for you to find a formal class. Ever since you were a child, you have never been consistent in anything you do…\” ….” My friend yelled…
What is real education? If the child’s “nature” is left to his own devices, he may not even get past the starting line.
A friend asked me what I thought of the \”nature education\” and \”happiness education\” that are very popular nowadays. This reminds me of the time I sent my son to kindergarten. Since the elderly on both sides of the family were in poor health and could no longer help us take care of the children, we sent our son to a private kindergarten when he just turned two years old. Of course my son doesn\’t want to go, first of all…
What should I do if my baby has bald pillow and sparse hair on the top of his head? Maybe it’s because of these reasons…
As the saying goes, \”The body\’s hair and skin are influenced by its parents.\” But some parents don\’t understand. Although their own hair is very healthy, their baby\’s hair grows \”as they please\”, with clumps here and there. If your hair is thin and yellow, it means you are young. Your hair will grow gray at a young age. Not growing your hair will make you even more worried! So today, Doudehui summarizes the most frequently asked questions by daddies…
You can\’t tell your baby how late he is to speak. You need to learn some tricks to teach your baby to speak…
Question 1: My baby boy is one and a half years old and he still can’t speak. When he was one year old, he still called me daddy. Now he doesn’t call me anything but ahhhh! Although he understands everything and behaves normally, he just doesn\’t learn to speak. Could this be some kind of disease? Li Tinghui answered: Generally, there is no illness. If you are worried, you can check your baby\’s tongue tie, because a short tongue tie may affect…
How a mother controls her emotions and does not lose her temper is related to your child\’s life
I once watched \”Jasmine Blooms\” starring Zhang Ziyi. This movie tells the story of three generations, grandmother, mother, and myself, who have different attitudes towards love, marriage and children, but they show similar fates. At the end of the film, what my grandmother said before she died impressed me deeply: If I hadn\’t been pregnant with your mother, my life would have been so glorious. She felt…
The harm of threatening children with big bad wolves and monsters can have serious consequences!
If you keep making trouble, I won’t want you anymore! The big bad wolf only eats disobedient children! If you don\’t behave, let the police take you away! If you don’t take your medicine well, let the doctor give you injections! … I\’m sure everyone has heard the above words or said them to their babies, right? Even many daddies themselves are \”scared\” by hearing such words. But parents…
Threatening your child with love is extremely dangerous, please be careful!
A few days ago, a friend left a message asking me to write an article about the threat of love. Because the elderly at home sometimes tell their children that if you don\’t do this, they won\’t love you. Or if the child doesn’t say hello one day, just ask the child, do you not love me anymore? Doing so makes children feel insecure. This makes it difficult for mothers. Because they are all relatives and friends, sometimes it’s hard to tell…
What should I do if my baby coughs and has phlegm? Is it asthma? Don\’t be nervous, the answer is…
Question 1: My baby is 8 months old. He had bronchiolitis when he was 2 months old. Later, he always coughed and wheezed with phlegm. I went to the doctor today and he said it was asthma. He said it was a genetic problem. I would like to know what happens to asthma as he gets older. Okay? Can asthma be cured? Dr. Wang Jing’s answer: Asthma is generally not diagnosed within eight months unless there is a clear family history, because the definition of asthma is not sufficient. you…
What are the reasons why baby’s teeth are yellow, have black spots, have cavities, and have large gaps between teeth?
Many parents are worried about the various problems that occur after their baby\’s teeth erupt. On the one hand, the baby drools and grinds his teeth when teeth erupt, fearing that this will be detrimental to the eruption of deciduous teeth. On the other hand, some parents see their baby\’s teeth turning yellow. , have dark spots and large gaps between teeth, and worry that the baby\’s deteriorating deciduous teeth will affect the eruption of permanent teeth in the future. After all, for such a small person…