There is a type of message that appears very frequently in the parenting section of our official account: I yelled/hit my child on impulse, and now I regret it. How can I control my emotions? Including friends around me, they often have this problem: every time they want to talk to their children properly, they always end up losing control of their emotions. As an adult, I feel deeply frustrated. Facing children…
Category: infancy
infancy
Are you educating your children or beating them up?
I believe everyone has heard a saying: Lucky people are healed by childhood throughout their lives, while unfortunate people are healed by childhood throughout their lives. But many people don’t understand why childhood is so important to children? What does a child need most in childhood? Why is a child’s childhood important? Some people say that childhood is a breeding ground for mental illness. Why do you say that? From the heart…
How can children maintain a healthy body?
Is there a relationship between a girl\’s height and age at menarche – Yes! But it does not mean that once you have your period, you will stop growing. When a girl starts menstruation, it only means that her ovarian function has begun to mature and she has entered puberty. It does not mean that her development is complete. If we really want to talk about the impact of menstruation on height, it is that after menstruation, the child\’s bone growth rate will be affected. All 18 episodes of children\’s…
8 thoughts on family education experiences
As I think more and more deeply about issues related to family education, I feel that some aspects should be further sorted out and emphasized. The following are some of my thoughts on family education, and I would like to share my thoughts with all parents. First, family education must not just be education in the general sense, but a kind of education with a specific family relationship, which is the relationship between parents and specific families…
Should parents use persecutory education?
I saw a report a few days ago and thought it was worth discussing. There is a three-and-a-half-year-old girl in Chongqing. Her father often uses \”striking\” language to educate her. He believes that only by hitting can you learn to work hard, so he often says to his daughter: \”You are really stupid!\” \”You are so stupid.\” The mouth is so long that you can’t even call anyone?” According to her daughter’s mother, her child went to school in September last year…
What should parents do when their children reach a sensitive period for imitation?
Starting from the time a child is born, as the child grows, he or she will be interested in specific things at different ages, learn things very quickly, and go through a special imitation period. When children reach the imitation stage, they learn what they like, and some imitation is unconscious imitation, but these are things that attract them and interest them. However, here…
Tsinghua professor: How to accompany your children to grow up to be better
Dong Qing once said in \”The Long Reader\”: Companionship is a kind of power. In this world, if you lose companionship, you lose the meaning of survival. But what is the purpose of parents spending time with their children? The purpose of accompanying children is actually to enable them to become independent one day. Yesterday I took Dabao to play in the sand at the playground. While playing, I saw a mother who kept…
The education of a truly outstanding family must be positive discipline, attentive companionship and mutual growth.
The great writer Tolstoy has a thought-provoking saying: \”All education, or nine hundred and ninety-nine percent of education, comes down to role models.\” As the first role models in the lives of their children, parents educate their children. Crucial. Wise parents will create a good family tradition that will benefit their children throughout their lives; short-sighted parents will destroy…
Do you know how to chat with your children?
After not seeing each other for a while, I noticed that my best friend’s 4-year-old son Youyou was speaking more and more fluently, and chatting with him often made people around him laugh. \”My son must have inherited your sharp tongue, so good at talking.\” I joked to my best friend. \”I think that\’s why he and I chatted often during this period. Youyou is quite timid and doesn\’t dare to chat with other children. Once I went to listen…
How to tell if your baby has had enough to eat and drink?
Since the birth of a baby, not only new mothers, but the whole family are most concerned and curious about the question: \”Is the baby fed?\” Therefore, many novice mothers often face such inquiries and accusations in the initial stage: \”I see you have no milk, hurry up and add milk powder to the baby.\” The baby is hungry……