Carrying a small schoolbag, but walking alone on the border road. Just two days ago, a Lishui policeman stopped a 5-year-old little girl. When he asked why, he found out that the child was playing a game of \”Playing Back from School\”! It turned out that her mother sent her to the intersection of the kindergarten in the morning. The child wanted to go to the kindergarten by herself, but halfway there she wanted to go shopping. So, the cute baby turned around and walked away…
Category: infancy
infancy
How to deal with the problem of children who cannot afford to lose?
In our lives, some children, no matter what they do, can only win and cannot lose. He gets angry when he loses, throws a tantrum, and can\’t be coaxed no matter what. How should we deal with such children who cannot afford to lose? 1 A parent said that she and her children play games at home. If the children want to play, she will play with them. But she asked the child not to cry or lose his temper if he lost. …
Help children grow self-motivated and learn independently
Educating children does not mean simply asking them to do something, but igniting their interest in knowledge and awakening their inner drive so that they can learn and grow independently. If the internal drive is insufficient, if the child is allowed to learn, he will resist and resist, and he will be inactive, procrastinate, and lazy in doing things in life. This is a typical lack of internal drive, which is currently the biggest headache for parents…
What should you do if your parents are in a bad mood and take their anger out on others?
Some time ago, I saw a piece of news that made me very angry – a father in Chaohu City had a quarrel with his wife over trivial family matters, and his anger extended to a baby less than one year old. The baby was slapped and choked multiple times. Causes baby\’s face to turn blue. Recommended scientific parenting books. I really hope my parents have read the electronic version of this book and don’t think this father’s behavior of venting his anger on his children is so scary…
A state that allows children to receive the best nourishment and protection
I know a mother who is thin, has very white skin, is very beautiful, gentle, and always smiles. I often think that she has never been angry with anyone, or that she has no strength to be angry or manage it. own children. But experience also tells me that such a person will be very frightened when she is angry, or she will not be angry at all and will directly get sick, because she usually…
How to educate children about stealing money
Not long ago, a mother posted a request for help online, which sparked heated discussions among parent groups. She said that when she was cleaning her room that day, she found that the 100 yuan in the drawer was missing. She didn\’t pay much attention at first, thinking that she had remembered it wrong. Unexpectedly, a few days later, when she was packing her son\’s schoolbag, she found a lot of snacks. Call your son over and ask him carefully…
The more parents are willing to do these three things in raising a boy, the more capable the child will be in the future.
Every parent will spend a lot of effort in educating their children, because educating children is a very profound knowledge. It is not only about taking care of children\’s learning, but more importantly, the education of children in daily life. Some parents think that in educating children Boys spend more energy than girls because boys are always naughty and difficult to discipline. After my best friend got married, she gave birth to a lively…
You must understand the natural laws of growth for children aged 0-20
The natural law of children\’s growth Laozi said: \”The appearance of Confucius can only follow the Tao.\” This reminds us to step out of distinguishing between right and wrong, good and bad, beauty and ugliness, good and evil, enter the Tao, look at all things with a consciousness that obeys the laws of nature, and break away from the dualistic state of mind. So, what are the natural laws of children’s growth? Let me give you an example first. Human…
How to take care of your children so that they feel closer to you
Psychologist Li Meijin has said that parenting is the basis of education, and children should try their best to raise themselves. The more you raise a child by yourself, the closer you will become. On the contrary, if the child is not raised by yourself, the child will be distant from you. If a child is not raised by himself, even if you are his biological mother, the child will not kiss you. We love our children very much, but if we raise them improperly, the child may not…
In terms of expectations and encouragement for children, how can parents encourage their children to progress and be confident?
In a consultation, a parent mentioned how to improve their child\’s self-confidence. The child is 15 years old and is taller than she is, but often hangs his head. To outsiders, this child seems to be lacking in energy, but she herself knows that the child is not confident enough. I asked her: What do you think? She said: I know that was when she was in elementary school, and my husband and I had a very bad relationship, which caused him to feel insecure during that time…