If you are not cruel to your children, you will be sad in the future

When I went back to my hometown during the Chinese New Year, I found that a relative\’s child had grown into a young man. Although he was only thirteen or fourteen years old, he was already over 1.7 meters tall and his voice had also changed. I still vaguely remember what he looked like when he was a child, and I can’t help but lament how time flies. During the Spring Festival, we went to their home as guests. After entering the door, I found him wearing pajamas and leaning on the sofa playing mobile games. When he saw a guest coming, he…

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What should I play with my 12-month-old baby to make him smarter?

Since I started writing about babies\’ \”Smart Games\” topic, I have received a lot of questions. Everyone thinks that I am writing too slowly. The baby is more than ten months old. When can we wait? I am as considerate as an orange, and today I will launch a special topic on smart games for children over 12 months old! Babies and toddlers go hand in hand! There are also three games every week, I hope you all like it! Where…

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You have nothing to say to your child, why not start with this?

What should I do if I have nothing to say to my child? Last weekend, a mother came to the picture book library. She told her worriedly that there was no common topic between her and her daughter. It turned out that her daughter was ten years old and in fourth grade. Before the second grade of elementary school, my daughter was very close to her and was willing to share anything with her mother. And since the third grade, I suddenly found that my daughter is no longer willing to…

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The baby\’s brain is most afraid of \”starving\”, so what can really nourish the brain?

I recently attended a lecture at a pediatric hospital here in New York to learn about the milestones of baby brain development and learned several interesting knowledge points: 1. When the baby is born, the ratio of the head to the body will be a bit strange, and the head will appear to be very big. Because when a baby is born, the brain already accounts for a large proportion of the body. 0-3 years old is the period when the brain develops most rapidly. When a baby is 3…

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You think you are a full-time mother, but he thinks you are a full-time nanny

In order for their children to have a good life background, many women quit the workplace and became full-time mothers, but they were regarded as full-time nannies by men… Juaner fell out with her husband again. The reason was that Juaner wanted to sign herself up for a dance training class. Her husband not only disagreed, but also said a few words to her, telling her to take good care of the children more than anything else and to study more nutritious dishes…

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Is it harmful for a baby to be picky about food? He should be congratulated! This is the first time that he has made his own decision.

My child Edamame started to be picky when he was almost 1 year old. It turned out that when the complementary food was pureed, he would eat anything. But when he was allowed to choose his own food, he became picky. He eats pumpkins but refuses to eat sweet potatoes; he eats green vegetables but refuses to eat carrots. I was very anxious, but grandma was very worried, so she simply put a spoon to her mouth to feed her, and of course what she got was… again and again…

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Where is the line between respecting children and doting on them?  Worth pondering for every parent

A mother posted on WeChat Moments, \”It\’s so difficult to be a mother these days. I respect my children, but my husband and mother-in-law accuse me of doting. Can someone please tell me what kind of love is doting?\” In fact, who has not been a parent? Such confusion? If you are strict, you are afraid that your children will become timid and fearful of getting into trouble. I feel relaxed, but I worry about being naughty and lawless. In love, I am afraid that if I hold you too tightly, I will be suffocated. …

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What should I do if my baby has a stuffy nose? Try these tips

Although summer has arrived, and mothers have turned on the air conditioners and fans in their homes, the temperature in early summer is still very different, sometimes hot and sometimes cold. When I wake up, my baby has a bit of a stuffy nose, and I look at the baby sneezing. She was panting, uncomfortable to feed, and had a bad appetite. My mother felt really distressed. Causes of baby\’s nasal congestion. Baby\’s stuffy nose is mostly caused by mucus in the nasal cavity…

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Don\’t forget we were once children too

Rooney never takes a nap at home on weekends. He gets up from seven in the morning and can play until nine in the evening. He is full of energy. Sometimes I really envy him. It was the same at noon yesterday. After dinner, everyone went back to the room to take a nap, and Rooney was playing alone in the living room. I was so sleepy that I accompanied my brother and slowly fell asleep. In a daze, I heard Rooney…

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You can’t take care of your children if you don’t go to work! How hard is it to take care of your children alone?

When some people hear the term \”full-time mother\”, they think it must be very easy for you to take care of your children full-time without having to go to work. Especially when your children accidentally fall or fall ill or fail to recover, those people find it even more unbelievable and think that you can\’t take care of them well even if you don\’t go to work. Baby, what an incompetent mother! But only those who have been mothers know how hard it is to take care of a baby. It is the only 24-hour job in the world…

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