The \”naughty child\” stayed at home for two months, which tortured me to the point of depression, but also made me re-recognize myself.

The official account has not been updated for more than a month. The reason is three words – tired! Friends who have experienced raising two children by one person may understand that the tiredness of raising a baby cannot be relieved by sleeping or going shopping to buy some clothes. It is the kind of exhaustion caused by the crying and fussing of the baby 24 hours a day. The days when you are overwhelmed by clinginess and endless demands for companionship are sometimes like a sharp sword, cutting you into pieces…

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How many women have become slaves as mothers?

Maybe you are like me. When you first became a mother, you rushed to be a perfect mother and rushed to abandon yourself. In the two years since I gave birth to my eldest son, I have been walking on the arduous road of being a perfect mother. The child had a fever at night and struggled until midnight. Finally, the fever subsided and he fell asleep. I sat on the bed and looked at the child\’s face. The child\’s father said: While the child is asleep, go to sleep quickly, and…

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Another charming nanny with a dark heart! Wounds are constantly found on the 7-month-old baby, and the truth turns out to be…

Nowadays, many families have children because their parents have to work, so they either ask the elderly to help take care of the children, or hire nannies to take care of the children through domestic service companies. Ms. Liu from Datong, Shanxi hired a nanny through a housekeeping company to take care of her 7-month-old baby girl. However, Ms. Liu discovered from surveillance that the nanny beat the child when she was alone at home with the child. From monitoring…

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What’s the best way to treat a 5-month-old girl with kidney stones? It’s just because her parents did this stupid thing.

On December 3, 2018, Sichuan Provincial People\’s Hospital received a 5-month-old baby girl (Xiao Wengmu). When the baby girl was sent to the hospital, her whole body was swollen and she had not urinated for more than 20 hours… After careful examination, the receiving doctor was surprised to find that the child had hydronephrosis in both kidneys, and the kidneys were actually covered with stones, which happened to be blocked. above the ureter. The blood creatinine value reached 30…

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What should I do if my baby’s legs and neck are submerged?

Question 1: My baby is 17 days old, why is his neck so flooded? How to deal with it? Dr. Luo Zhen’s answer: Because babies have short necks and the wrinkled skin on their necks are superimposed, they are particularly prone to sweating, redness, and even ulceration. It is recommended that the baby lie down more often and raise his head more often when he is awake, which can naturally open the neck and make the skin in the folds breathable. Also, after cleaning the area…

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At how many months is it normal for a baby to turn over? Turning over too soon can be a problem…

Question 1: The baby was born prematurely and would turn over at nine days old. At thirty-five days old, his hands and feet were found to be shaking intermittently. What is going on? Dr. Cui Lixia answered: It is generally abnormal to turn over in nine days. In this case, it is recommended to check to see if the muscle tone is high, and judge whether intervention is needed based on the test results. Shaking hands and feet may be due to imperfect development of the nervous system and underdevelopment of the cerebral cortex…

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Children are not afraid of introversion, but they are afraid of developing an \”avoidant\” personality

When many parents introduce their children to us, they can\’t help but say that their children are introverted and talk less. Although this is not a shortcoming, it seems to be a problem for the parents. Moreover, the more parents encourage their children to be cheerful, the more their children shrink back. , rarely play with other children. In fact, regarding children\’s personality, whether they are introverts or extroverts, they have their own advantages, as long as it does not affect…

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At this age of your child, you must not ignore the power of developing good study habits.

Habits can determine a person\’s destiny. Whether you can take on important responsibilities, whether you can handle things, and what your abilities are are probably all related to your habits. Let’s take a look at this story: A foreign-funded company with high requirements is recruiting workers. Some young people with good academic qualifications, height, appearance and other objective conditions have passed five levels and entered the last level – executive interview. …

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What is education?

Education means that if you make a mistake, I will see through it without telling you. In life, many parents will scold their children in public in the name of \”education\” in order to maintain their own face and ignore the dignity of their children. But in fact, real education is knowing that you have made a mistake, but I am still willing to protect your dignity and face. Because I know that good parents should be their children\’s support…

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How to raise children who are afraid of difficulties and dare not try

In life, we will find that many children have the following characteristics: unwilling to think too much when learning, and want to give up when encountering difficulties; unwilling to try new things, showing no interest in anything and not wanting to do it; if it is right or wrong to do it, If there is a task that cannot be done, I will put it off and be reluctant to start. These phenomena often point to the same problem in children\’s hearts – fear of difficulties. Because I am afraid of difficulties, I feel…

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