Fighting between the eldest child and the second child is an unavoidable problem in families with two children. Whether there are two sons, two daughters, or one son and one daughter, all kinds of fighting and fighting are inevitable. Some people say that if the age difference between the second child is large, there will be no fighting. In my opinion, unless the age gap is so big that the eldest child is already an adult when the second child is born, fighting will still occur. Our older sister is older than our younger sister…
Category: infancy
infancy
Your \”good intentions\” are killing your children\’s creativity
I had a dinner date with a friend two days ago, and the conversation turned into a \”psychological consultation.\” My friend works in a university that is envied by many people. She has winter and summer vacations every year, but she says she is extremely anxious. She is more tired than anyone else. Lectures, scientific research, administration, and further studies all have to be compromised, and she may not be able to succeed. Well done. What made her even more uncomfortable was that with this step-by-step rhythm, she simply couldn\’t…
If my child has a fever, do I need to wake him up at night to give him medicine? Will it burn out the brain?
Let science answer it. Under normal circumstances, there is no need to wake up children to give medicine. The seasons have changed recently, and the temperature has been hot and cold. There are many children with colds and fevers. There are also some infectious diseases that make us more worried and anxious. Especially at night, once the child\’s temperature is measured and he has a fever, we start to struggle with whether to wake him up and take antipyretics. After checking a lot of information, I found…
Whether a child loves reading or not, choosing the right book is the key
A mother said, \”My child doesn\’t like reading. Even if I take him to the bookstore, he only reads weird comics. What should I do?\” Every parent hopes that their children will fall in love with reading. Because the way a child reads is really beautiful. Hold a book, sit on the bedside, or lean on the sofa. The little mind is already flying in the vast expanse…
The biggest generation gap in the world is between those with children and those without children
There are two types of women: one has children, and the other does not have children. There is a galaxy between them and it is difficult to have fun. Never say to a mother: \”Why don\’t you just raise a child~\” \”Raising a child is about the same as raising a pet.\” Believe me, Sister Zhiling could explode when she heard it. After she gave birth to a child, she realized how difficult it is to raise a child. She goes to bed later than a ghost and wakes up 3 hours earlier than a chicken…
What should I do if my husband’s parenting philosophy conflicts with my own?
Some time ago, a reader left me a message and talked about the conflict with her husband. She was very distressed. She said: Recently, my husband and I have been quarreling a lot because of the education of our eldest son. To make a long story short, for example, tonight the child had to serve the meal by himself. Just now. The cooked porridge was a bit hot, but he insisted on serving it to us. My approach was to stand in front of him to ensure his safety and let him try it once, but my husband was very fierce…
A 6-month-old boy’s face was burned…and this dangerous product is available in almost every household
In order to help their children keep out the cold in winter, parents have tried every means, including hot water bottles, electric blankets, heaters… However, Xiao Junjie, a 6-month-old boy in Xiao County, was burned by the sun due to his grandmother\’s negligence and improper heating operation. His face was burnt and his hands were charred… According to Xiao Junjie\’s grandmother\’s recollection, she saw that Xiao Junjie was sleeping soundly at that time, so she put a blanket on the little sun for warmth, and the blanket…
The way you lose control of your emotions has entered your child\’s soul! To the mother who scolded the instant noodle guy on the high-speed train for being a scumbag
Recently, a video of a passenger eating instant noodles on a high-speed train and being yelled at by a woman has been widely circulated on the Internet. The incident happened during the Spring Festival. A male passenger was preparing to eat instant noodles. A mother sitting next to her held her child and pointed at him and said that instant noodles are not allowed on the high-speed train. The male passenger was very angry after hearing this and angrily said to his wife: \”Eat slowly.\” In the end, the mother became so angry that she sprayed…
What causes bleeding when brushing teeth? These 3 easily overlooked misunderstandings are seriously harming children’s teeth
The following questions ask you whether you will cry after watching it? I brush my child\’s teeth every day, but his teeth are still black; I never give her candy, but he still has cavities; I bought him an expensive electric toothbrush, but he still hasn\’t escaped the clutches of toothache! He opens his mouth to laugh, only to find that his little baby teeth are all black; when he holds his face and cries, you realize that the teeth have already been rotten and have big holes; with…
What are those mothers who are not tired of taking care of their children secretly doing?
Last week, Xiaonan, the mother of her second child, was injured and hospitalized. The story made people laugh and cry: She came out of the bathroom and saw the boss climbing precariously on the bookshelf with his dick in his hand. She wanted to rush forward, but she didn\’t want to step on a Lego brick with her bare feet. She let out a heart-wrenching scream that frightened the eldest child and made her second child fall down. She acts as an emergency pad in a superhuman \”hero saving beauty\” pose. …