The philosopher Plato once said: \”Where a person\’s education from childhood guides him will determine where he will go later.\” People are like this. What kind of family they grow up in when they are young will determine what kind of path they will take when they grow up. road. What causes parents plant in the soil of education in the first half of their lives will bear fruit on their children in the second half of their lives. Family is a child\’s first school, parents…
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Parenting knowledge
Unexpectedly, the reading situation of the children in the editorial office was a little different from what I thought.
A few days ago, I casually asked in the editorial group, how are the children’s reading status recently? Any confusion? Most of the kids in the editorial department are in grades 1-3, and they are all about the same age, so we can chat together. I didn\’t expect that the reading worries of my editor friends are basically similar, they are all worried about time for their children: There are also friends who are struggling with reading in some subjects…
Six \”paradoxes\” that can help children who are tired of studying get better
\”Paradoxes often sound contradictory, but they can help people stop being stuck in the original system, jump out of the original dimension, look at things from a higher dimension, and solve problems. The following six paradoxes can be very useful. How to help a child who is tired of studying get better. \” 1. If you want to get better, you must accept that he is \”bad\”. When a child who is tired of studying returns to your home, will your parents\’ first reaction be…
There is a kind of education called \”low temperature and slow cooking\”
Saw a post on Zhihu. The poster was a mother who claimed that as her son grew up, her temper became worse and worse, and she often lost control of her emotions. She gets particularly angry when her son disobeys even a little bit. She would yell at him, even twist his face and ears, and use cold violence on the child without speaking or paying attention to him. She said: \”I knew what I was doing was wrong. After beating him…
When I let go of my anxiety and became a \”positive\” mother, my adolescent daughter\’s dislike of studying and rebelliousness disappeared.
My daughter has not been going to school since last year. Like many children who don’t like to study, she has a lot of problems. The main reason for suspending schooling is that the child is excluded in the class. Her classmates always beat her up and the teacher does not recognize her. When I go to school, she always complains that her stomach hurts and asks me to ask the teacher for leave. I usually have trouble concentrating in class, and I procrastinate on my homework. And learn…
Is quarreling in front of children the worst thing a parent can do? Psychologists tell you not to be so nervous
Ever since I became a parent, it seems that quarreling has become a serious matter. It is no longer the incarnation of \”disagreement\”, but a weapon to \”hurt children\”. I got emotional and had a quarrel, but I regretted it afterwards. Ten thousand voices floated through my mind, including the voices of parenting experts, the accusations of relatives and friends around me, and the internal questioning of myself: \”Don\’t be a child. ..
Children who are constantly entangled with their parents and find it difficult to become independent, have a low sense of security and are anxious.
Are you unknowingly making your children lose their sense of security? When you tell your children to be careful over and over again, have you ever thought that this might be conveying your anxiety? Every \”don\’t talk to strangers\” and \”be careful\” will make teenagers more afraid of the world and lose the courage to explore and be independent. As a mom, have you realized that sometimes your overprotectiveness can…
Less \”reasoning\” with children and more \”building relationships\” with them
Rousseau once mentioned in his book \”Emile\”: \”Talking to children is the most ineffective education.\” Children are most afraid of their parents nagging them endlessly. And parents who are keen on being reasonable will only make the relationship between their children and themselves further and further away. Psychology professor He Lingfeng said: \”The first priority of parents is to maintain a good parent-child relationship, so that your influence on them is; if…
The most ignored educational truth: Raising children depends on the emotional value of parents
\”It\’s great that you actually did it before I said anything!\” \”Don\’t worry, you can do it step by step!\” \”You are very capable, just do it when you think of it. Awesome!\” A mother in Liaoning was helpless with her rebellious third-grade son, and her reprimands were ineffective. So, she did the opposite, picked up a book of \”Praising Quotations\” and praised her son accordingly. …
What can parents say to cheer up their children who are tired of studying?
Parents, think back first, have you ever been motivated? Have you ever been hit? Recall a memory that left a lasting impression on you. I once received encouragement from a classmate\’s father. I was in Beijing at that time. After graduation, I shared a house with my college classmates. At that time, I quit my job at Baidu and went to the newspaper office. But my life in the newspaper office was also very unhappy. Others thought…