For the sake of your children, please read aloud three times a day

In the process of educating children, parents and teachers should always be on the same front, that is, for the good of the children, and at least they should each take their own responsibilities. Teachers are responsible for their children\’s learning tasks at school, while parents are responsible for their children\’s learning behavior at home and ensure the completion of various learning tasks. However, many parents get angry because of tutoring homework, which makes the parent-child relationship tense…

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To every mother who sleeps with you, the whole world owes you a hug

A few nights ago, I was typing at my desk. It was almost 10 o\’clock, and my son was still yelling. What did I think was wrong? Go over and take a look. It turned out that he was asking his mother to continue telling the story. She kept shouting \”Mom, Mom, get up, get up!\” The mother who couldn\’t bear the torture was probably at her wits\’ end. The last weapon – \”playing dead\” mode has been activated…

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How parents can stop internal friction and anxiety

I read a true story on Zhihu: A family went hiking together, but when they got to the mountain, they discovered that their little daughter had forgotten her baby bottle. The father immediately started to get angry at the mother: \”Why don\’t you go on a trip? You can even forget the milk bottle. I don\’t even know what your brain is doing.\” The mother was stunned for a moment, and then got angry at the eldest daughter: \”I didn\’t ask you to help me. Did you collect it?…

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What is more important than grades is children’s views on marriage and love

Today is Valentine\’s Day, and a piece of news surfaced on the Internet. Two 19-year-old Chinese students in Canada dueled over a girl, and one of them was beaten to death. The girl was always there during the duel, but one of the boys wanted to give up in the middle, but she kept instigating him, and eventually the tragedy happened. Two handsome foreign students, one was seriously injured and died, and the other faces an indefinite prison sentence. And as the instigator, Nian…

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Never call your children \”proud\” again. The impact of this sentence is dozens of times greater than you think.

\”Well, I did okay in the exam this time, but don\’t be proud. Keep working hard and do better next time.\” \”Look, you are proud and complacent again. When you are proud, you will regress! But no, your grades have dropped again. !\” These are the words my mother often said to me when I was a child, which made my ears tingle. The word \”pride\” became her mantra. Now, more than twenty years later, I can still…

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What will happen to a cursed child?

This is a true story: There was a pastor and his wife in Portland, Oregon, USA. They have a son who brings them many troubles. Not only that, his son ran away from home very early and has been cut off from his parents for three or four years. So the pastor found a psychological counselor and told him about his pain. After a brief communication, this…

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How far is school bullying from our children?

Some time ago, \”campus bullying\” became the focus of hot searches, because such behavior is highly concealed, the scope of damage is small, the severity is difficult to define, and it is difficult to detect and deal with it in time. Children who are bullied often suffer physical and mental damage that cannot be clearly seen in a short period of time. Often as the number of times increases and time continues, the degree of damage gradually accumulates, which will make the bullied…

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How does a mother wean her baby from breastfeeding, and how does she resume breastfeeding well?

With the arrival of spring and the comfortable weather, many mothers choose to start weaning their babies during this time. However, a series of problems caused by weaning have also appeared, such as the baby is unwilling to drink milk powder, refuses the bottle, cries for milk when seeing the mother, and keeps making noises during the day and night. Family members can help share these problems. When the baby cries, dad or elders can help…

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How to educate children with poor self-discipline since childhood

I attended a parent-teacher meeting with my children two days ago and heard many mothers complaining about their children: It is very difficult to do homework every day, and the homework that can be completed in an hour is not completed until bed; Unconsciously, they read books at one moment and want to watch TV at the next. , and for a while I was distracted to play; as soon as I studied, I had a headache, stomachache, and wanted to drink water and go to the toilet. But there are also a few mothers who secretly say with joy: Fortunately…

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The stupid mother is scolding \”forced sharing\”, but the smart mother secretly teaches her children the virtue of \”sharing\”

Sharing is a good thing, and responsible parents should teach their children. Let me tell you something: When I was a graduate student, I had to observe an internship in a kindergarten. I had nothing to do at noon, so I chatted with the kindergarten teachers. My common feeling with the teacher is that although the children are only over three years old, their abilities are already different from those of the same class. Some children are selfish and overbearing, unwilling to…

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