The love of parents hides the happiness of children

After watching the variety show \”Three Yards\”, I became fans of Jordan Chan and Cai\’er Ying again. In the show, Jordan Chan cooks porridge for the first time. Cai\’er Ying strongly supported it and named it \”Chen\’s Porridge\”. After the porridge was brought to the table, Ying Cai\’er immediately recommended it to everyone: \”The porridge made by my husband is okay.\” When someone suggested leaving the porridge for others to try, Ying Cai\’er said: \”No…

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What should I do if my baby’s face is asymmetrical? How can I correct it by sleeping?

Question 1: My baby is 14 months old and has a big face on one side and a small face on the other. How can I correct it? Dr. Cui Lixia answered: If the baby sleeps with a big or small face, parents can change the direction of the baby\’s previous sleeping position. After the baby is corrected, he still needs to change the sleeping position frequently to prevent the phenomenon of tilted head and face. If parents are not sure about the direction in which their baby usually sleeps, they should place the side with the baby\’s smaller face…

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If you don\’t talk well, what\’s the use even if it\’s really \”for the good of the children\”?

I took Liuliu to art class that day. There were other training classes in that building. While waiting for her outside the classroom door, there was a moderate commotion from the piano class. It was a girl of about seven or eight years old, standing at the door of the classroom with her head lowered. The person who looked like her mother stood in front of her with her hands folded, and kept scolding her: \”Did you go out with your brain? How should you play this…

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The biggest scam in education: It’s called releasing children’s nature!

There is a kind of education called releasing children\’s nature. They put children on the pedestal and regard releasing children\’s \”nature\” as inevitable, legal and natural. Of course, the final result is that the children do not grow up to be what their parents want. Bears, wild, uneducated, and unruly children have become the best synonyms for such children. This is not nature education, it is rubbish education, and it sounds very…

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No matter how successful your career is, it cannot make up for the failure of educating your children! No matter how busy you are, you still have to take a look

Some time ago, a mother asked Youma about a problem: her child is not interested in studying and plays games after school. Recently, he has started skipping school and absenteeism. The teacher talked to me several times, and his father and I were worried to death. In the end, What should I do? Youma asked her: When did the child become obsessed with games? “It started in kindergarten, and his dad and I didn’t pay much attention to it at the time, plus we…

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How did you end up raising your child?

Are you loving your children, or are you doting on them? Well-known education expert Yin Jianli wrote in \”A Good Mother is Better than a Good Teacher 2\”: The essence of doting is control, and the essence of love is giving freedom. Doting is not giving too much love, but controlling, possessing and arranging substitution in the name of love. Parents are intoxicated with the happiness of giving and become surrogate parents, depriving their children of their independence…

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Are children easily bullied? Self-defense prevents children from becoming \”soft persimmons\” in the future

The plot of \”School Bullying in Secondary 2\” is changing day by day. It is impossible to judge right from wrong. Chang\’s father has no intention of following the drama. How will the truth be verified by time? I think, from our perspective, I just want to ask the most practical question: \”How to prevent children from becoming easily bullied in the future?\” Why is your child easily bullied? I have been thinking for a long time whether I should start like this, after all, I wrote this as soon as I started…

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What should I do if my newborn doesn’t sleep well?

Question 1: My baby is 7 months old. Ever since he choked on milk twice a few days ago, he keeps turning over when sleeping. In the past few days, I have not dared to add complementary foods, and I have not dared to feed too much milk. Doctor, what\’s going on? Is there anything I need to pay special attention to? Can complementary foods be added later? Doctor Wang Yanli answered: After choking, some small milk powder particles will enter the trachea or lungs, causing an inflammatory reaction…

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Sad! A 10-year-old boy couldn\’t stand up after playing on the trampoline three times in a row. The truth is worth pondering for parents.

Various extreme sports in the adult world are diverse and exciting! For example, it is as follows: Children can easily like these stimulating games. This is a business opportunity. So, this kind of large-scale toys appeared. Don’t say you haven’t seen it before. Many parents are playing with their children on streets, shopping malls, and amusement parks across the country! But this jumping style of play hides great safety…

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