When I was at work, my colleague answered the phone and heard him patiently say: \”It\’s okay. I just bought it a few days ago and he will definitely replace it.\” The other person didn\’t know what he said, but the colleague continued: \”Just change it to something similar. You don’t have to worry about it, I’ll just contact him.” We looked at each other and smiled, this was to coax our girlfriend. After hanging up the phone, another colleague joked: \”What a warm man, he can coax girls…\”
Category: Parenting knowledge
Parenting knowledge
Children who are often beaten and scolded may have surprising changes in their IQ
Not long ago, a piece of news on the Internet aroused heated discussion: A total of 8 fires broke out in less than 24 hours within the scope of Huixiang 5 and 6 communities in Tiexi District, Shenyang City. The suspect turned out to be a 16-year-old boy Jiang. He was often scolded and scolded by his father, and his heart was filled with resentment over time. The father once said that his son \”will go to jail sooner or later.\” This sentence made…
This may be the most ineffective way of education
Recently, my daughter has been looking at electronic products a lot, so I think it is necessary to limit it. Last night, I made a request to her that from now on she can’t watch it during school hours from Monday to Friday, but can only watch it on two days on weekends. In order to promote the implementation of the plan, I also added: \”In the future, when you are not watching cartoons, mom will not look at the phone and play with you.\” After hearing such a promise, she didn\’t do much…
In every unhappy marriage, there is hidden the grievances of the children
Chinese people have a very unreasonable logic. Many couples, even though their relationship is irretrievably broken, would rather have a small quarrel every three days or a big quarrel every five days to ensure the integrity of their family rather than divorce. In their hearts, only a complete family can bring happiness and joy to their children. But in fact, this idea is very stubborn and naive. the year 1995,…
Parents should be as smart as Yang Lan
As parents, why shouldn’t we be grateful to our children? Children remind us of the beauty of life and the power of love with their existence. During the most difficult time in my life, when I think of them, I feel so at ease and become more powerful. Parents have talked about respecting their children many times, but very few have done it. They keep saying it is for the good of their children, but they don’t know…
What\’s stopping you from keeping up with your child\’s growth?
I mentioned in the last issue that I don’t know when, we began to have more and more demands on our children, and we didn’t know it. When does it begin? I have no idea. Why are you proposing these tasks that you may not even be able to complete? In a few sleepless nights, I thought of these: Because we are really too anxious: He is my child…
If you don’t let go of the pain of raising a child, he really won’t know! Don\’t believe it
Can you think about the problem from the other person\’s perspective? able. In order to make the other person feel comfortable listening to what you say. However, after finally standing over, he couldn\’t really feel it, and he was annoyed by the nice words he said. So, let him go, what you hear will make you burst into tears… During the winter vacation two years ago, Baoduo\’s father was free early because he was a teacher. I…
Horrified, my son is actually reading adult comics
A few days ago, I attended a psychology training in Wuhan. One day, a friend sent a message saying that he found that his child was reading adult comics. The child not only read the comics himself, but also shared the comics with several friends through WeChat. My Zaizai was also one of the friends who was shared. , let me pay attention. At that time, I was focused on the course and didn\’t think deeply at all…
If your child doesn’t like to learn or doesn’t learn well, it may be your fault.
In the video, we can see the mother\’s good intentions. She is very anxious to let her children learn about the supermarket checkout process: \”Bring the eggs, come and check out!\” \”Scan it, scan it, does it ring? ?\” \”Okay, check out, turn your eyes and face, okay.\” Perhaps we and many of our mothers can find the characteristics of the woman in the video…
\”No child loves to learn!\”
This sentence was categorically told to me by my mother-in-law last week. At eight o\’clock in the evening, I rushed home after a long journey. My daughter was practicing the piano with great interest. The piece was the newly learned \”For Alice\”. The child played the piano well, so I asked casually: \”Do you like playing the piano very much? Do you also like this piece of music?\” Before the child could answer, the mother-in-law, who usually didn\’t have a good ear, suddenly roared…