Whether a child is successful or not depends on how the mother talks! I regret seeing it

Once, when Rui\’s mother attended an education lecture, she heard an expert say this: \”The way a mother speaks determines whether the child will be successful in the future, especially if the mother often speaks words of encouragement and appreciation, which can turn an idiot into a genius. .\” It sounded too exaggerated at the time, but later it was confirmed bit by bit: Mother\’s encouragement will indeed make children outstanding. Let me first talk about something close to me…

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pain! A mother accidentally kills her son and then jumps off a building. When did raising a child become a matter of life and death?

There is a saying in China that \”a tiger\’s poison cannot eat its seeds.\” However, the mother\’s murder of her child happened bloody again. Two days ago, a mother in Fujian accidentally killed her fifth-grade son and then committed suicide by jumping off a building. After seeing this news in my circle of friends, my heart was filled with a strong sense of suffocation. As a mother, this is the most horrific and tragic thing I can imagine…

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Why am I not afraid that my child will wet his pants?

Among the friends of classmate Zhe, little Jasmine is the most loved by the mothers. At every gathering, everyone marvels at the well-behaved, sensible, confident and generous nature of this 3-year-old girl. But recently, Jasmine\’s mother has encountered trouble. In her own words: \”Since Jasmine was born, the biggest challenge in raising her has come.\” Little Jasmine who \”refuses to sit on the toilet to pee\”…

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Children who know how to spend money will not have a bad life in the future.

New Year\’s money is an opportunity to cultivate children\’s view of money. A few days ago, the topic of a Ningbo mother\’s handling of her children\’s New Year\’s money became a hot search topic on Weibo. This mother plans to use her child’s 35,000 New Year’s money to reward herself and buy herself a bag. Netizens have two opinions about this mother\’s approach: More than 90% of netizens believe that New Year\’s money is essentially a product of \”reciprocity\”…

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May our children be treated gently by this world

To be honest, every time we see vicious social incidents, it always makes us feel chilled. Killing people because of a bowl of noodles really happened on the streets of Wuhan. Because of a quarrel, the deceased got angry and hit someone in a fit of rage, and unexpectedly lost his life. From the whole incident, people felt a kind of hostility. And this kind of hostility can be seen everywhere in our lives. Still remember a few years ago…

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Why do I encourage my children to talk back?

When I saw my daughter\’s report card, I was really going to explode. I teamed up with my husband to prepare to have a good talk with my daughter. I said, \”I think you should be able to do better in the exam.\” The girl said, \”It\’s not all my fault. The teacher and I don\’t get along.\” Dad said, \”These six courses are taught by six teachers.\” The girl said: \”People who can\’t get along with others like to be teachers.\” ……

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Children always like to eat snacks? My little trick might help you

△ The picture is of Edamame’s rationed snack cans. This weekend, Edamame’s mother shared a little parenting tip with everyone, a short and practical one. I have tried many ways to stop my children from eating snacks, but they all seem very difficult. I yelled at Edamame at the top of my lungs to no avail. Isn\’t there a saying that says: \”If roaring works, then donkeys will rule the world?\” If you let your children not eat snacks…

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After knowing my son\’s wish, I burst into tears…

After having children, time always flies by. Time slips away quietly every time you wake your children up, every time you cook for them, every time you take your children to study classes. Why do we only start focusing on the things in front of us and the anxiety of the unknown. But we have forgotten why we have children, and have forgotten our original intention of raising children? I still remember when I was pregnant…

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Your inappropriate love may become a cage that limits your child’s development

When I was at work, my colleague answered the phone and heard him patiently say: \”It\’s okay. I just bought it a few days ago and he will definitely replace it.\” The other person didn\’t know what he said, but the colleague continued: \”Just change it to something similar. You don’t have to worry about it, I’ll just contact him.” We looked at each other and smiled, this was to coax our girlfriend. After hanging up the phone, another colleague joked: \”What a warm man, he can coax girls…\”

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Children who are often beaten and scolded may have surprising changes in their IQ

Not long ago, a piece of news on the Internet aroused heated discussion: A total of 8 fires broke out in less than 24 hours within the scope of Huixiang 5 and 6 communities in Tiexi District, Shenyang City. The suspect turned out to be a 16-year-old boy Jiang. He was often scolded and scolded by his father, and his heart was filled with resentment over time. The father once said that his son \”will go to jail sooner or later.\” This sentence made…

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