On Valentine\’s Day, our family of three went out to play. During the meal, my nine-year-old son suddenly said: \”I really envy you adults. You can spend Valentine\’s Day with your lover, but we kids can\’t.\” I had a vague feeling that something was wrong. Ask him: \”Do you have a lover?\” \”Yes.\” He said. \”Who is it?\” \”Hu Keke from our class.\” \”Does she think so too?\” \”…
Category: Parenting knowledge
Parenting knowledge
My dear, don’t raise your children to be “unable to lose”
1. Be happy whether you win or lose. Recently, several children in Xiaonuo’s kindergarten class got hand, foot and mouth disease, and the whole class was suspended for half a month. Xiao Nuo was also infected. Although the symptoms were very mild, he still had to be isolated at home. In order to pass this unexpected time, I bought her several educational toys, including puzzles that she loved very much. The puzzle is made of wood…
What do the parents of children who have good grades and are sensible do?
As soon as I got home from get off work, I heard the familiar noise coming from Sister Yu’s house opposite. I frowned and opened the door to persuade her. Sister Yu grabbed me and started crying: \”Xiaolu, you said that Mingyu has been attending classes at a training institution every weekend this semester and has spent a lot of money. Why are his grades still so bad?\” Sister Yu\’s son was in the first grade of junior high school, and she couldn\’t bear to leave it all day long. I can’t bear to eat or wear clothes…
Don’t let your children attend interest classes? A mother’s reflections and strategies
My child is about to turn 5, and I haven’t signed up for any classes except football class. One is that I don’t feel anxious because my child is still young. . . Second, it is too troublesome to choose interest classes and I don’t know what to study. But when I looked at the various talent shows in the kindergarten and my baby was always one of the favorites, I felt that something was not right. . . Why take interest classes? I\’m not panicking…
Do you still dislike the elderly people who help you take care of your children? In fact, they have long been unwilling to do so.
Xiaomei has recently encountered a big trouble, that is, her mother-in-law is in poor health and has to go back to her hometown to recuperate, and is unable to help her take care of her 2-year-old son. When the 2-year-old boy was just growing up, he would make a mess every day in the house. When her mother-in-law complained to her that she was almost exhausted from cleaning housework, she would still dismiss her. Just a few days after this mother-in-law left, she was tormented by her son…
Does your family also set rules for your children?
As the saying goes, without rules, there is no circle. But will all parents set red lines for their children that cannot be touched in their lives and cultivate their children\’s sense of rules from an early age? Not everyone is a social person. In society, we need to abide by various rules, establish a \”rules awareness\”, and be less ignorant and fearless. The various rules spread throughout human society are for the better…
The more sensible the child, the more pitiful he is? The more \”bear\”, the happier?
It\’s very simple, the reason why sensible children are unhappy. Either the standard for judging \”sensible\” is wrong, or the adults around him are too ungrateful. Zhihu asked a question, are sensible children happy? 4,000 replies, the top 5 most liked replies are all: unhappy! There are many reasons. Because of family reasons, I am afraid that my parents will be unhappy, so…
What this father did when his child stole something was amazing
Recently, a short video has been widely circulated on the Internet. A little boy stole chocolate from the mall, his father\’s reaction. Think about it, if this happened to us, our parents would at most give a few words of education and tell their children not to do it next time. But what this father did gave us a lot of inspiration. First of all, let the children admit their mistakes by themselves instead of harshly blaming…
Why are children disobedient? You will understand after reading these cartoons!
Before Rooney was five years old, I always thought that I was doing a pretty good job as a mother, and my communication with Rooney had always been smooth. However, after giving birth to my younger brother this year, I spent less time with him. It just so happened that he also entered the stage of being both attached to his mother and wanting to be with her. An independent and \”polar\” six-year-old, he challenged me again and again and I became increasingly impatient with him, so we had constant conflicts and I was…
What changes does reading bring to children?
What changes does reading bring to children? I think parents who value reading will have their own answers. We Chinese don’t like reading, so the road to promoting reading is always difficult. Bai Yansong once said, \”Chinese people are so reduced to the point where they have to promote reading?\” He mentioned one thing: \”CCTV has done a public service announcement about reading. It has been doing it for the past few years…