It is not enough to educate children only with love. Simple and crude methods are indeed more effective.

The child was brought home from kindergarten on the first day. He said he had been dizzy since the morning and had a runny nose sometimes. It turned out to be a cold, so he was not sent to kindergarten the next day. When I get up in the morning, I lie down on the ground and play. We were afraid that he would catch a cold on the floor, the heating was off, and he still had a cold, so we asked him to get on the mat. Grandma called him several times, but he ignored her. I\’m angry, I\’m going to kill…

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Parents are the most important teaching materials for their children

Last week I took Nanking to an event at the Science and Technology Museum. Standing behind Nanking in the queue was a girl of the same age as Nanking. She was wearing the uniform of one of the top elementary schools in Shanghai. The parents next to her looked at the girl with envy. Because it\’s too difficult to get into that school. Just when everyone was filled with envy, Kunming had already reached the entrance of the Science and Technology Museum, but the girl behind him suddenly…

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For such parents, the children will \”submit\”

A few days ago, a mother said in a circle of friends, \”My child is getting more and more disobedient. It feels like he doesn\’t listen to anything I say. When I tell him to go east, he goes west. When I play cards with my friends, he comes to make trouble.\” Why can\’t you just be a good child quietly?\” This should be the wish of many parents, hoping that their children will be obedient. Some parents use violence to intimidate their children…

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My child, if you don’t treat others badly, life will not treat you badly either.

The weather has been nice recently, so basically all indoor activities have been canceled on Saturdays and Sundays. If I have the chance, I take my children to the park to play. Once, several strange children were playing on the basketball court in the park. Some were riding twisters, some were riding scooters, and some were riding balance bikes. They were both three or four years old, and they quickly became familiar with each other. They would play together for a while, and then play a game of catching up with each other. The man riding the Twist bike…

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\”You will soon be the father of mobile phones\” – this child\’s wish made countless mothers cry

In the past few days, many friends in the circle of friends have been forwarding this video. The farthest distance in the world is when I am by your side while you are playing with your phone. This is absolutely true. In a Chinese language test, the title of the composition for the fourth grade of a primary school in Danzhou City was: \”××, I want to say to you.\” The boy Xiaorong wrote such an essay – \”Dad, I have always wanted to say to you.\” : Play with me…

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Now the kids jump off the building when they disagree! What are you doing to save him?

A few days ago, a mother in the WeChat group said that her 5-year-old child is much shorter than his peers and often gets sick. Moreover, the child has a very weak personality and often cries at all times. She asked everyone if they can help. I learned some information from her. This child\’s life schedule has always been irregular. Sometimes my father comes back late from working overtime, and the family often…

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Five tips to help children gain high self-esteem and become confident

Many parents worry that their children are timid, have low self-esteem, and are afraid of new challenges. Half a year ago, my child also suffered from low self-esteem and shyness. He always felt that he was not good enough in all aspects, and his grades occasionally declined. He was discouraged. He was not selected in one voting and simply avoided all similar selections. I got back the Chinese language paper two days ago, with a score of 90 (the highest score in the class was 97). She believed…

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Huang Lei: Men can’t do this when they get married. I will never let my daughter marry him.

Two days ago, Rui\’s mother accompanied her little niece to choose a wedding dress. Because there were so many girls trying on wedding dresses that day, the clerk couldn\’t take care of them, and my niece was obviously a little irritable. Later, when it was her turn to try it on, she tried several sets but nothing she liked. This was great, my little niece completely exploded, took off her wedding dress and pulled me out. The two of us went to the cafe, planning to…

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Mom and dad, don\’t sleep, get up and wrestle

(01) Many people recommended the same movie to me: \”Dangal!\” Daddy\”. I went to see it immediately. I was so moved that I cried like a dog. When I walked out of the theater, I woke up when the cold wind blew. There seems to be something wrong… What this movie really wants to tell us is not actually in the movie. (02) Without giving away any spoilers, let me tell you…

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You won’t be able to be husband and wife after becoming parents? After my children go to school, I no longer know how to be a parent.

A few days ago, the parent examination questions for Shanghai\’s primary school students were circulated on the Internet, which made me tremble and break out in cold sweat. My first reaction is: If I were in Shanghai and had a mother who was a lousy math student like me, my son would be completely out of school! I really can\’t do any of those logic questions. As a person who has been illiterate in science for ten thousand years, I hate this kind of question the most in my life, \”Ghost Drawing Talisman\”. It turns out that IQ is not…

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