Children, studying hard is not the only choice, but it is the best choice

Picture: In the spring of the cattle herding class, I went to the barber shop in my hometown to get a haircut today. The person who washed my hair was a little girl about sixteen or seventeen years old. She must have been recently hired. She is still childish, dressed in simple clothes, and her movements are unskilled. None of the other barbers were chatty either. I was curious about why she didn\’t go to school, so I couldn\’t help but chat with her. \”How old are you?\” \”Sixteen.\” \”No…

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There are two major failures in family education: being caught by the child and driving the child to a dead end.

There is a story that is very popular: The father discovered that his 15-year-old daughter was not at home, and left a letter that read: \”Dear Mom and Dad, Randy and I eloped today. Randy is a very unique person. Tattooed with all kinds of patterns, he is only 42 years old, which is not old, right? I will live with him in the forest. Of course, it is not just me and him, Randy and several others…

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The new type of brain-based Internet addiction is rampant among teenagers, and children are the hardest hit: Parents really shouldn’t let it go anymore

Online games have an addictive mechanism, and addiction to them will cause changes in the physiological structure of the brain. These two points are almost the same as drugs. It can be said that addiction to online games is a new type of brain drug that is flooding, and the target is children. Game addiction is classified as a mental illness. A few days ago, there was a big news: On June 19, the World Health Organization officially classified \”game addiction\”…

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Children, no one in this world can only do what they like

I signed up my 5-year-old daughter for an English learning class. She takes classes once a week. I don’t expect her to learn well or get high marks in the exams in the future. I just hope that she can develop some sense of language during her language-sensitive period. Besides, the classes in the class are mainly It is mainly about playing and entertaining. This Monday night was the second class, and her father took her there. After returning home from class, her father taught me his daughter\’s original words. \”…

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\”I\’m Not the God of Medicine\” is a hit, every child is the \”god of medicine\” to his parents

Yesterday, while crying, I watched a movie that has become very popular in recent days and has almost zero negative reviews – \”I\’m Not the God of Medicine\”. The film uses a chronic myelogenous leukemia patient as a realistic subject, depicting the embarrassment and humiliation of \”little people\” after falling ill, and there were many tears in the audience. What touched me most in the movie was not the protagonist Cheng Yong of \”The God of Medicine\”, but the leukemia patient Lu Yiyi who is now a father, and the single mother…

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Can you just sit back and relax after giving birth to a son? NO! Preventing sexual assault is more urgent for boys than for girls

A few days ago, a reader told me about the experience of her 11-year-old son (let’s call him Xiao Ming) who was almost sexually assaulted. She hoped that I would share it to remind all parents of boys: One day last week, Xiao Ming’s mother accidentally It was found that in the search history of the computer browser, there were keywords such as \”gay\” and \”like boys\”. She was very surprised and asked her husband and he said it was not him who searched…

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Doing these three things with your baby during summer vacation has so many benefits

It’s vacation, and many parents prepare a trip for their children. I often wonder whether I should have a game. Unfortunately, there are a lot of things going on at home this summer, and it’s hard to get away. You can only go around near your home. However, sometimes I think that what my children need is my more attentive company. So the effect is almost the same as traveling at home and abroad. For example, spending time with your children…

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Do old people always break children\’s rules? The whole family must read this shocking little story

Every mother worries about what to do if her children don\’t follow the rules. For example, what should I do if I always eat snacks? What should I do if I keep watching TV and refuse to turn it off? Let me share with you a magical example. When I was a student, I was dumbfounded. This example makes me believe that children are really not difficult to manage, and it is the adults who have the problem. As long as this guideline is followed, every child can successfully behave. At that time I was…

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Chinese children ruined by guilt and guilt

My friend\’s daughter Yanyan is 8 years old this year. She is an innocent and innocent age, but she suffers from depression. Yanyan said to the doctor: \”I feel sorry for my parents.\” The relationship between her friend and her husband has always been bad. Every time they quarreled, the friend couldn\’t help but get angry at her daughter: \”If it weren\’t for you, we would have divorced long ago. .\” Yanyan felt that it was all her fault. Without her, her parents would not…

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Why do I never share my baby in my friend circle? After reading this, you won’t dare anymore

A while ago, an old classmate whom Rui’s mother hadn’t contacted for many years added me on WeChat. I planned to chat first, but the first thing my classmate asked when he came up was: \”You and your husband have been married for so many years, and you haven\’t had a child yet?\” I was confused by her question, so I quickly replied: \”We Jia Ruirui is already in the fourth grade of elementary school.\” The old classmate then explained to me as if he was relieved…

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