Who doesn’t want to love their children fiercely, but what if they are spoiled? Where is the boundary between love and doting?

People, once they become parents, it is especially easy to be mean: I never feel bad when I buy things for my children. I am happier when I spend the money on my children than on myself. I enjoy letting my children eat good food than eating it in my own mouth. ; As long as the children have fun, they are willing to be parents no matter how tired they are. However, this is not a great sentiment that is so noble or sacrificial. From an evolutionary perspective,…

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How important is it for children to withstand harm?

A few days ago, I was chatting with my mother-in-law before going to bed. This is a compulsory course for us every day. It is nothing more than a conversation between the two of us before going to sleep. What happened today and what new changes have occurred in our daughter. When I talk about one thing, I still feel a little strange in my heart. \”Today, I took Shishi out. A neighbor saw it and said, your child has become more beautiful. I looked so beautiful like before…

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Are you still worried about your child’s disobedience? You should listen to your children

Cheng Zi is almost 9 years old. Over the past six months, one word has popped out of his mouth more and more: \”No\” – I don\’t! No! no! don\’t want! NO! NO! NO! I understand that saying \”no\” means that Orange\’s self-awareness is getting stronger and his sense of boundaries is getting clearer – this is my business, my choice, and I don\’t have to listen to your opinion. …

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Establish good rules and children will feel safer

When a little life comes to us, it brings us infinite joy. This little baby will soon go from a period of eating and sleeping to a naughty period. I saw in a parenting book that this period of time for children is called the \”child\’s ignorance period\”, which generally refers to the fact that there are many dangerous items, but the child has the ability to touch them, but is unable to identify whether they are dangerous. For example: buttons on clothes,…

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Never let our sons fight for us

The mother was humiliated, the son drew a knife, accidentally killed someone, and was sentenced to life. The incident quickly spread across the country, and most people supported what their son Yu Huan did. When 11 men took turns to humiliate their mother: beating, insulting, pushing her head into the toilet, stuffing shoes into her mouth, and even taking out her male genitals to molest her, any bloody man would… .

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Mom, will one day you leave me forever?

Fifteen days after the Spring Equinox, Douzhiyi, the Qingming wind will arrive. At the end of mid-spring, during family sacrifices and tomb-sweeping, children may ask: \”What is death? Is my son going to die? Is my mother going to die too?\” Parents rarely take the initiative to discuss the concept of \”death\” with their children. mentioned. However, children grow up and become more and more curious about the world. Maybe I heard it from others, or saw it on TV, or some elders passed away…

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The mother of three children collapsed on a Fuzhou flyover at 3 a.m.: Who saw the tears of the \”three-no woman\”?

A few days ago, there was a video that deeply resonated with many mothers. In the video, Ms. Zheng from Fuzhou collapsed and said to the police on the overpass: I am very troubled and depressed. If I had not called 110, I would have jumped directly from here… She became a policewoman after giving birth to her third child. A stay-at-home mother takes care of all the big and small things at home alone. Often one person has to take care of three children and pick up…

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A child is \”bad\” because he has \”bad\” parents

In the past two days, a class teacher in the school presented two cases of girls in his class. A girl openly \”goes against\” the class rules, but she is actually challenging the authority of the class teacher. After the \”100-Day Sprint\” in the senior year of high school, every student in each class will sign their name on the class flag to show encouragement and cheer themselves up. The students, head teachers and teaching staff all wrote their names religiously. …

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