\”Frustration education\” is so important, but 99% of parents do it wrong

\”I want my children to know from an early age that frustration is a blessing in disguise.\” Last Sunday, my friend and I just watched a chicken soup movie. At the end, she said to me in a touching and intoxicating way. Shit! I asked her: \”Then do you know what to do in frustration education?\” \”When a child cries, do you comfort it or wait for him to recover on his own?\” \”When a child encounters difficulties, do you help…

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The way you force your children to share is really ugly.

Where there are children, there is \”war\”. No, two more children \”fighted\” over a toy: The younger boy said: \”This is my toy!\” The older boy said: \”Lend it to me.\” Play and I\’ll return it to you later!\” \”No! This is mine!\” At this time, the mother of the younger child intervened: \”A good baby must know how to share! Play with your brother…

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I played some tricks and my husband turned from cell phone cancer to child slave

Every day, countless mothers ask questions in the background – \”How can I make my husband put down his mobile phone and have a baby immediately?\” Well, this is a good question, and I am also looking for the answer. I want to say, who doesn’t have a mobile phone slave? I often laugh at myself in a joking way to Mr. Liu who is crazy about using mobile phones: \”I might as well make a mobile phone!\” Well, that\’s right, my guy is not a bad guy…

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The baby goes to bed too late, and there is no time to read before going to bed. How to spend time raising a baby to be efficient?

The most scarce asset for everyone is time. Because we are pressed for time, we often feel anxious and feel like we can’t get anything done. After waiting for the baby to go to bed, I do something else, but before I go to bed, I look at it and realize, wow, it’s 12 o’clock again; I can’t get up in the morning, and I am almost late for work; at the end of the week, I find that I have done nothing! After half a year, I feel that I have learned nothing and am getting older in vain…

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How about taking care of the children by yourself and letting your mother-in-law enjoy her old age in peace?

In \”Weekend Parents\”, the grandmother of Xuanxuan, the weekend baby, is an intellectual. She wants to live her own life and is not willing to take care of her grandchildren. She moved out as soon as her son got married, and she didn\’t want to live with the children. She didn\’t want to wash, cook, and clean up the housework for her son and his wife, or help her son take care of her grandson. Instead, she wanted to live her own life and fell in love at dusk. The child was sick that day…

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Squatting down and listening to your child is the greatest respect for your child

The famous educator Ruan Gengmei once said: \”Squat down and listen to your children more, and what you will see is an innocent world.\” Last weekend, I took my children to get together with a classmate Xiao Xu whom I haven\’t seen for a long time. Suddenly, Xiao Xu\’s son was two years older than his daughter. Although the two little guys met for the first time, they quickly found a common language and had a great time. This is my first time taking…

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The pattern of the father and the mood of the mother are the feng shui of the family.

Authorized picture | Photographed by Xiang Wei. The pattern of the father and the mood of the mother are the feng shui of the family. If the father is the mountain, the mother is the sea. The mountain gives people support, and the sea soothes people\’s hearts. If the father is a lamp, the mother is the fire. The lamp illuminates the direction and the fire brings warmth. A family is built by father and mother. The father\’s pattern and the mother\’s mood determine the feng shui of the family. …

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Your child is growing taller, are you eating right?

The three keys to growing taller are diet, exercise and sleep, each of which is indispensable. According to clinical research, if the three-pronged approach is achieved correctly, the height of a boy is the average height of his parents plus 7.5 cm, and that of a girl is 5.5 cm. If the child does not eat well If you are well-balanced, don\’t like to exercise and are used to going to bed late, you may \”grow back\”. After the growth plates close, you will be shorter than your parents. sleep…

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The Buddhist legal system is out, come and be a Confucian mother!

During this time, parents in the circle of friends were frantically retweeting a picture. The term \”Buddhist system\” has become very popular recently, and its counterpart is \”Dharma system\”. After experiencing life and death, this parent successfully transformed from a legal parent to a Buddhist parent. However, faced with the pressure for their children to enter higher education, can this parent really \”escape into Buddhism\”? Children trained by Buddhist education are really…

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