Praising your child like this may be hurting him

My daughter Yanyan originally loved dancing. Every time she heard that she was going to dance, she was very excited. All her friends praised her: \”Yanyan, you are so talented and you dance so beautifully.\” However, one day she didn\’t want to dance anymore and they forced her to go. She didn\’t want to stand in the classroom with her head down. move. The family feels that the child may lack self-confidence, so in order to make her more confident…

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Wei Shusheng’s lecture experience: The highest state of education is to let children educate themselves and learn by themselves

In fact, every child has many advantages and strengths. Education is to keep these advantages and strengths again and again, strengthen them and strengthen them. Don\’t always talk about your child\’s shortcomings. If you talk too much, he will feel that he is worthless. See more of the children\’s strengths and let them cultivate great happiness from small happiness. Just develop good habits in a down-to-earth manner with a clear conscience. It’s better to do it than never do it. …

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Child, if you can, please let me be your confidant

Yesterday evening, at the gate of Mizhi No. 3 Middle School in Shaanxi Province, a group of students were attacked with a knife on their way home from school. 19 students (14 women and 5 men) were injured and 9 of them died (7 women and 2 men). The murderer was caught on the spot. He said: When he was a student at Mizhi No. 3 Middle School, he was bullied on campus, so he hated the students. Today he killed someone with a knife in order to vent his hatred and take revenge on society. Even if there are thousands…

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The double reduction policy is officially enacted into law, and the era of struggling parents is really here

Family education is clearly legislated. On October 23, 2021, the \”Family Education Promotion Law of the People\’s Republic of China\” was officially passed and will come into effect on January 1, 2022. This means that family education will now have \”laws to follow\”; after the implementation of double reductions, parents can no longer be \”hands-off shopkeepers\”. Every parent must clearly realize: be a wise…

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Why can\’t we cry \”poor\” to our children? This is the most rational answer I\’ve ever seen…

Mom, is our family very poor? Before going to bed, my son blinked and asked me. I was confused and didn’t know why my 5-year-old son asked this. Grandma said you only have 20 cents. Mom, don’t be sad. I will spend all the money in the piggy belly for you tomorrow. It\’s really killing me, and I have to live to the point where I have to rely on the money in my son\’s piggy bank for relief. Looking at my son with a look of hatred, \”Mom…

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Let your children learn from the saints the basic principles of how to behave and do things?

Learn from Confucius 1. The rules of life of a saint 1. Integrity: Be true to your word 2. Filial piety: Filial piety is the first thing 3. Repentance: Repent when you know your mistakes 4. Ambition: No man can take away ambition 5. Friends: Make good friends 6. Tolerance: It is a state of mind 2. The saint\’s way of life 1. Listen to his words, but also observe his actions 2. Be adaptable and not exclusive…

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Parents who have trouble coaxing them to sleep, do you really know what sleep means to your children?

Little D used to be a bad sleeper. He would sleep with me all night long, as if he had grown up on me. Looking back on those days now, I still have lingering fears. At that time, I learned a lot about sleep and mastered many techniques to induce sleep. Little D\’s sleep has gradually improved since she was 1 year old. She can fall asleep on her own by gently patting her. After 1 and a half years old, she will go to sleep on her own as soon as she completes the sleep routine. I\’ll go back now…

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After the double deduction policy, why must your children fear their own school?

It has been four months since the \”double reduction\” program was implemented. Many head teachers have reported that laziness and dawdling have become the current situation of many students. He slacks off in class, doesn\’t write his homework carefully after class, always complains about being tired from studying, and refuses to accept discipline. Children are children precisely because they are often willful, greedy for comfort, and do whatever they want. However, as teachers and parents, we must not indulge our children. …

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Will the meaning of the new year\’s money be confiscated, leading to two completely different lives for the children?

During the New Year, visiting relatives and paying New Year\’s greetings is a lively event, and the children are even more happy because they can receive a lot of New Year\’s money and their pockets are always bulging. However, in most cases, the child\’s happiness lasts only half a day. At night, the mother will use various methods to \”coerce and induce\” the child to hand over the lucky money. It is full of routines. \”You don\’t have a bank card yet, I guess…

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