He is clearly the son of a \”stock god\”, but he rents a house, drives a second-hand car, and takes out a loan to buy a house… The truth behind this has silenced all parents

Renting a house, driving a second-hand car, buying a house with a loan… these words may be difficult for people to associate with success. However, Peter was successful. He pursued his dream alone, went through twists and turns, and relied on his own efforts to become a well-known musician. He scored the Oscar-winning film \”Dances with Wolves\” and also scored the American Indian documentary \”500 Tribes\”…

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You need to learn how to say \”no\” to your children

When it comes to children\’s education, many parents will encounter a big problem and often fall into a misunderstanding. That’s the difficulty of saying “no” to your children. The child wants a toy, but that toy is obviously not suitable for him; the child does not want to go to kindergarten, but it is obviously not Sunday. To an adult, a child\’s desires may seem trivial. The most important thing is that adults are always ruthless…

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The lack of psychological nutrition in childhood can take a lifetime and be difficult to recover.

Recently, many friends are following the drama \”In the Name of the People\”. I also watched a few episodes and was shocked by Zhao Dehan at the beginning. He clearly remembered the amount of bribes he accepted – 239,995,400 yuan! What\’s even more surprising is that when he faced a refrigerator full of RMB, he actually said the following words: \”I\’m scared of being poor\” \”I don\’t dare to spend a penny…\”

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My child, I would rather you run slower than others, rather than fall down halfway and not be able to get up.

Ms. Su’s grandmother was a Japanese orphan, so her family moved to Tokyo, Japan in 1999. When she first arrived in Japan, she and her brother had to register for school. The principal asked: Are you from China? Ms. Su was surprised. We haven\’t submitted the materials yet. How does the principal know it\’s from China? The principal later told her that he could tell by the thickness of their arms. because…

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How far away are children from the clutches of sexual abuse? Anger alone is not enough

Recently, many friends have been discussing the issue of sex education. Because an incredible thing happened in Ningbo a few days ago, we have refreshed our bottom line against \”bad guys\”. According to news reports: Ms. Wang’s 16-month-old baby girl in Ningbo was sexually assaulted. The doctor said: \”The tear on the child\’s posterior vaginal wall and perineal body is very serious and requires emergency debridement and suturing!\” Ms. Wang…

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She is in a desperate situation but keeps laughing. The baby doesn’t understand that her mother has made a huge mistake.

A \”Mama Bear\” created a \”little internet celebrity\” A 14-month-old British child, Brandon Emery, recently became a little internet celebrity in the UK because of a set of photos. The child accidentally locked himself in his mother Kirstie Green\’s car, and her mother didn\’t have the key. The child\’s mother panicked and called five firefighters. Surprising…

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Let me teach you a trick so you don’t always regret losing your temper with your children.

The reason why we are who we are today is formed by our past growth environment, native family and parental education. Therefore, in the process of interacting with children, we will inevitably show the strength accumulated in our growth, which has advantages and disadvantages. Therefore, we hope to cut off the incorrect forces passed on in family education in the past…

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Don’t let these little details ruin your child’s good education

Well-educated children will be treated more gently by the world, because well-behaved and well-mannered children can bring inner joy and comfort to others. Some children are losing points in their education because of some inadvertent details. The way a child speaks reveals his upbringing. My friend Xiaoya is a primary school teacher. She shared something with me: There was a rebel in the class…

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It’s not grades that determine a child’s life, but these 5 things

For a rural family with five generations of farmers, having a child finally admitted to college is a major event that makes him stand out. Villagers from all over the country are jealous, and the whole family seems to have grasped a straw that changes their destiny. , full of hope and expectation. However, a few years after his son entered college, the 60-year-old father suddenly discovered that everything was different from what he thought…

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If you can’t change your child, you might as well compromise temporarily [Conversation with a parent]

Just after the Dragon Boat Festival, a parent added me as a friend on WeChat and asked me for advice: My son took the high school entrance examination this year. He studies hard and ranks among the top in school. I don’t know why, but I don’t want to do my homework after these few days off. When adults say something to me, I still talk back. More importantly, I cry loudly, saying that I am tired of studying and don’t want to study anymore. Does the teacher have any teaching methods? Obviously,…

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