One morning in 2015, Mr. Feng from Xi’an received a phone call. A man claimed that he had kidnapped his son and asked Mr. Feng to prepare 2 million in cash to redeem him. At first, Mr. Feng thought it was a prank and immediately called his son, but his son never answered. Mr. Feng called his wife again. His wife told him that his son had taken the TOEFL test in the morning. Two people…
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Parenting knowledge
After knowing my son\’s wish, I burst into tears…
After having children, time always flies by. Time slips away quietly every time you wake your children up, every time you cook for them, every time you take your children to study classes. Why do we only start focusing on the things in front of us and the anxiety of the unknown. But we have forgotten why we have children, and have forgotten our original intention of raising children? I still remember when I was pregnant…
When raising children, how many parents make it an arrangement to accompany them?
The grass is bearing its seeds, the wind is shaking its leaves, we are standing, not talking, it is very beautiful – \”In Front of the Door\” by Gu Cheng. What is companionship? Companionship means actually having someone listen when you want to talk, someone who will echo you when you want to share, someone who will be happy with you when you are happy, and someone who will comfort you when you are sad. Companionship is like a heater, as long as you are close to him…
Children who are often beaten and scolded may have surprising changes in their IQ
Not long ago, a piece of news on the Internet aroused heated discussion: A total of 8 fires broke out in less than 24 hours within the scope of Huixiang 5 and 6 communities in Tiexi District, Shenyang City. The suspect turned out to be a 16-year-old boy Jiang. He was often scolded and scolded by his father, and his heart was filled with resentment over time. The father once said that his son \”will go to jail sooner or later.\” This sentence made…
When a child wakes up crying from a nightmare, how to guide the child to calm down?
At around 22:00 the night before yesterday, I was planning to sit on the sofa and watch TV for a while to rest. Suddenly my son\’s cry came over, and I heard him say in the room, \”I want to call grandma! Woohoo, I want to find grandma!\” I wondered for a while (it had been a long time since I woke up crying in the middle of my sleep to find someone. It\’s something. Maybe it\’s because I had so much fun at my grandma\’s house for two days last weekend…
In every unhappy marriage, there is hidden the grievances of the children
Chinese people have a very unreasonable logic. Many couples, even though their relationship is irretrievably broken, would rather have a small quarrel every three days or a big quarrel every five days to ensure the integrity of their family rather than divorce. In their hearts, only a complete family can bring happiness and joy to their children. But in fact, this idea is very stubborn and naive. the year 1995,…
My husband doesn’t have a baby, how to treat this disease?
\”I\’ve thought about divorce many times, but I\’m worried about my children.\” Little T asked me for help in answering questions, and his words were full of helplessness. She said that she encountered a husband who never participated in childcare, but also pointed out that this was not good and that was wrong: Every day when he came home from work, the man would lie down on the bed after dinner and look at his mobile phone. The children wanted to play with him. He ignored… There was something wrong with the child…
What\’s stopping you from keeping up with your child\’s growth?
I mentioned in the last issue that I don’t know when, we began to have more and more demands on our children, and we didn’t know it. When does it begin? I have no idea. Why are you proposing these tasks that you may not even be able to complete? In a few sleepless nights, I thought of these: Because we are really too anxious: He is my child…
If you want your children to be happy, please do this
The mother of a student recently told me that she feels that she is an ordinary person, and her children should also be ordinary people. In the future, whether it is studying or living, health and happiness are the most important. In her opinion, a plain and warm life is the best. I hope that children can always maintain a warm and normal mind and be less utilitarian, so that they will feel that life is beautiful. These few words…
Horrified, my son is actually reading adult comics
A few days ago, I attended a psychology training in Wuhan. One day, a friend sent a message saying that he found that his child was reading adult comics. The child not only read the comics himself, but also shared the comics with several friends through WeChat. My Zaizai was also one of the friends who was shared. , let me pay attention. At that time, I was focused on the course and didn\’t think deeply at all…