I have always regarded diligence as a complete compliment. It was not until I met many parents who were diligent in helping their children make choices that I realized that some diligence is the wishful thinking of parents and is also a disaster for their children. I met Sister Han when I was on vacation at the beach. She looked to be in her forties, but she was actually only thirty-two years old. We have been living together for the past few days, and I have seen her very…
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Parenting knowledge
How to educate a 9-year-old boy who steals money, parents’ alternative punishment wins praise
During the National Day, most children, accompanied by their parents, \”travel around\” and visit the great rivers and mountains of the motherland. But Hanghang, a 9-year-old boy from Chongqing, is busy picking up scraps to make money. After finally taking a long vacation, they let their children collect scraps to make money. Are the parents in this family crazy about money? Are you doing this to save money for your children to buy a house? Only if you look closely will you know that Hanghang…
\”Why are my parents always right and me always wrong?\”
A few days ago, I was playing with my eight-month-old daughter on the floor mat. When I got up, I rubbed my elbow on her forehead. Her forehead didn\’t look red, so it shouldn\’t hurt, but she was probably frightened and started crying. , I quickly picked her up, patted her back to comfort her, and apologized to her: Baby, I\’m sorry, mom accidentally touched your head, does it hurt? It\’s okay, I\’ll be there soon…
The secrets hidden in \”Ruyi\’s Royal Love in the Palace\” and the three common problems of Chinese mothers raising babies
While watching \”Ruyi\’s Royal Love in the Palace\”, barrages kept popping up: This drama is not about palace battles or love at all, but about parenting. I went back and watched it carefully several times, and it turns out that this drama really contains great wisdom about raising children. Although the prince\’s father is both a big pig\’s hooves, the differences in mother\’s parenting methods lead to very different growth of the children. Mother Lu discovered that in \”Ruyi\’s Royal Love in the Palace\”…
The reason why the baby cannot gain weight by just eating may be due to these reasons
Every mother hopes that her baby will grow fat and healthy, so in addition to preparing milk that her baby loves to drink, she will also put a lot of thought into complementary foods. Despite this, some babies are still skinny compared with children of the same age. Height and weight are not an advantage, and my mother is really worried. The reasons why the baby does not gain weight 1. The baby has insufficient nutritional intake. Skinny babies and nutritious dietary structure…
Boy who sleeps in class becomes famous: Children with this trait will not have bad luck in the future
I saw a very funny video. On the afternoon of October 16, in a first-grade primary school class in Shenzhen, the little boy Zhan Xiaoxun fell asleep on the desk because he was too sleepy. When the teacher saw this scene, he encouraged the students in the class to applaud together. Zhan Xiaoxun, who was awakened by the applause, immediately joined everyone in applauding without even opening his eyes, making the students laugh. …
When you denounce your parents, your children will also denounce you.
The rise of psychology suddenly made \”original family\” a high-frequency vocabulary. Many people attribute all their current unidealities to their \”original family\” at many times. It was my \”original family\” that created my wrong way of thinking, wrong behavior patterns, wrong ideas about mate selection, wrong personality and temper, and all the wrong things about me that I am unwilling to accept from the bottom of my heart. …
Heartbreaking short film of the year: The more things our parents do to us, the further our relationship grows…
Recently, a 6-minute short film went viral on WeChat Moments and made countless parents cry after watching it. Many people say they see themselves inside, but what I see is a different scene. The video tells the story of the parent-child relationship crisis that broke out in three families because of a report card: A migrant father runs a breakfast shop. In order for his children to go to school in the city, the family wakes up early and stays up until late…
Commit suicide if you don’t let them play with your mobile phone: Finally, you’ve got used to your child’s “glass heart”
If you spoil your child\’s \”glass heart\”, one day it will shatter into pieces. Recently, two topics have been trending on Weibo. Viewed separately, they are two different news items, but viewed together, it is not that simple: The first one was on the night of September 2nd, somewhere in Anhui Province, firefighters rescued a young girl from a river. According to the firefighter, the girl loved playing with her mobile phone too much…
An 8-year-old girl was stabbed in the vagina and lost her fertility. What should be the response to school violence?
When I saw this news on Weibo today, I was shocked. Eight-year-old Xiaofeng (pseudonym) came to school as usual. She had a habit of lowering her head and carefully crossing the gap in the seat. Suddenly a boy rushed to her and asked her: \”My eraser is missing, did you steal it?\” Xiaofeng shook his head and said: \”I have never seen your eraser at all.\” No…