Some time ago, the director of the department resigned. It is said that his wife gave him an ultimatum: divorce if he does not return before the end of the year. After graduating from college, this director joined the company\’s branch in Tianjin, where he found a partner, got married, and settled down. Three years later, due to promotion, he was transferred from the Tianjin branch to the Suzhou branch, and then from Suzhou to another branch. Just like that…
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Parenting knowledge
What should parents do if their children \”steal things\”?
A friend complained to me: Recently, when she was washing her children\’s clothes, she always found some small things she had never seen before in her pockets. Sometimes, it’s shiny beaded flowers and exquisite and lovely shell necklaces; sometimes it’s a small ethnic-style purse with gorgeous and elegant tassels. Our country has the ancient saying \”stealing needles when you are young, stealing gold when you grow up\”. When my friends saw this scene, they couldn\’t help but worry, so…
\”Miracle Boy\” When children face difficulties, parents must do these things
There are a lot of good movies recently, so even though the kids were at home for the holidays, I still took the time to watch a few. The last time I watched \”Coco\”, I cried several times in the cinema. In the past few days, \”Miracle Boy\” made me cry like a dog again – from the beginning of the film, the little protagonist started to cry when he told his birth story. , the tears on my face never dried until the end. Your tears after becoming a mother…
Boys who didn’t cry enough when they were young, how can their emotional intelligence be so high?
When a crying boy is not blessed, will you give birth to a boy or a girl? Have you ever thought that our attitudes towards boys and girls crying are completely opposite? If a girl falls while running, even if she just scratches a shallow skin with her palm and starts crying, her parents will come over and ask, \”Oh, does it hurt?\” If it\’s a little boy, the attitude is the opposite: \”No. …
Hello, kid! I want to say sorry to you
I still remember that winter, I was running up and down the corridors of the hospital as fast as I could. I heard loud cries coming from the delivery room. Then he took over this little life from the nurse\’s hands. I greeted him with joy in my heart: \”Hello! My child, I am your father!\” Of course, he couldn\’t understand me at that time. But I can definitely feel my love for him. \”I will definitely…
Boys react slowly and don’t understand no matter what they say. Is there something wrong with their IQ?
Xingxing is a first-grade primary school student. A few days ago, Xingxing’s mother came to me and asked if I could introduce a professional intelligence testing agency. She planned to take Xingxing for a test. I asked Xingxing’s mother very strangely, how did she come up with the idea of going for this examination? Xingxing’s mother said that since Xingxing entered elementary school, the teacher has visited her countless times. He said that Xingxing didn\’t listen in class and was always distracted. Every time…
Planning for children reflects the pattern of parents
My friend Zheng Xin is the CEO of a listed company and a graduate of an Ivy League school. He has very strict requirements for his children. Since childhood, my daughter Yueyue has been required to consider whether everything she does is beneficial to people and society, and then consider the meaning of the matter itself. When Yueyue was very young, they once held a birthday party for Yueyue outside. There is a child\’s mother…
You don’t know how terrible “shielded” education is for your children
My friend Xiaoru is a substitute teacher in an elementary school. One time we had dinner together, and she told me that a new classmate was transferred to the school, but this classmate\’s reaction ability and ability to accept new things were very poor. At first, Xiaoru thought this classmate had intellectual problems. When Xiaoru reported the problem to the principal, the other party didn\’t believe it at all because the child was a friend of the principal…
Violent education is the most dangerous education
There was once such a video that went viral on the Internet: In Shuyang, Suqian, a man beat a seven-year-old girl in a supermarket. In the video captured by the supermarket surveillance camera, the man grabbed the girl\’s hair, slapped her several times, and then picked up one of the child\’s legs, swinging her around like a rag doll. Throw it on the ground. The girl struggles to…
Why can\’t Tihai help children become academic leaders?
There is a famous 10,000-hour theory in psychology: Anyone who practices in any field for more than 10,000 hours can become an expert in this field. Many people were inspired by this theory and began to train continuously. This theory has even become a strong support for the question sea tactics. So, scientifically speaking, does this theory hold up in practice? Why do some children…