Every parent who dotes on their children has to pay a price. Parents\’ love for their children is the most beautiful relationship. However, many times, parents love too deeply and too eagerly. They want to pave a lifelong path for their children and let them finish it in one step, but they forget that being too tolerant is indulgence, and being too pampering is pampering. Children who grow up in pampering only know how to take care of their own feelings and cannot…
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Can\’t stop yelling at your kids? The real reason may be here
A few days ago, I took Chengzi to extracurricular classes. The teacher called the name before class. When Orange was called, the teacher\’s pronunciation was a little inaccurate. Orange didn\’t realize that he was calling himself. The teacher called again. Chengzi hesitated and agreed in a low voice. The teacher didn\’t hear it and thought the student didn\’t come. I happened to be behind Cheng Zi, patted him, and asked him to raise his hands to tell the teacher that he was here. …
What is most harmful to children is not divorce, but this matter
In the latest episode of \”My Girl,\” actor Wang Ou choked up several times when talking about his parents. It turns out that when Wang Ou was three years old, her parents divorced. In her memory, her parents often quarreled because of emotional discord. Wang Ou, who was only a little older at the time, had witnessed his parents quarreling with his own eyes. Now more than 30 years have passed, but every time I think back to the past…
After the long vacation, I faced the children who refused to go to school. What did I do wrong?
Every first day of school after a long holiday, Rooney would make a fuss – not wanting to go to school. Of course, usually he just expresses his emotions, just like getting out of bed. As long as I use the two tactics of \”empathy\” and \”gentle and firm\”, he will definitely go to school in the end, but I didn\’t expect that this time he would be so of determination. Yesterday morning, before half past seven, he was drowsy…
Regarding the sublimation and cheapening of maternal love, it is ruining your next generation.
In a certain cinema, everyone was watching the movie seriously. Only one child jumped up and down in his seat and laughed from time to time. From the time he entered the theater to now, he had been making trouble for almost half an hour, and his mother was right next to him. An adult next to me couldn\’t bear it and asked the child\’s mother, \”Can you please control your child? It\’s too noisy.\” The child\’s mother didn\’t even look back and said, the child…
Children are smart at home, but why do they become stupid at school?
In the community, there is a child named \”Tailun\”, and everyone who hears this name thinks it is very fashionable. His mother would proudly explain: \”Tailun is a homophone for talent, because his father and I both hope that he will have the potential to be a genius from an early age.\” Tailen began to read when he was one and a half years old, and started learning English at the age of three. At the age of four, he could already do simple math problems. Tai, who just entered elementary school…
How to stimulate children\’s desire to learn? This is the best approach I\’ve seen…
How can we stimulate children\’s inner motivation to learn? I think parents can make some attempts from these aspects. How can children get into a good school? What should parents do? Children love to play, chase celebrities, play with mobile phones, and beat kings, but they don’t like to study. What should they do if their parents have to push them forward? Let the child study hard, even if his words are worn out, he will still be able to do it…
How can you stupid adults understand the joys that only belong to children?
Vancouver, which has always experienced continuous autumn rain, had a rare cool autumn today, and because we moved to a new home, Chengzi took the children to a park they had never been to before. Before the car even stopped, the naughty children cheered because they saw the playground. There are three playgrounds in this park. You can play them one by one and…
How are excellent children raised? You must avoid these 10 minefields
\”Wolf parents and tiger mothers\” are not advisable. It is definitely not okay to spoil your children too much, but \”being good for your children\” cannot be used as a simple and crude excuse. Corporal punishment can cause psychological trauma to children and make them resentful and rebellious. Parents cannot rest on their laurels and try to act like the person they want their children to be in front of them. Children\’s living habits, ways of doing things, ways of thinking, the world…
If you say \”ask your mother\” to your child again, I will greet your mother!
\”Dad, where did I come from?\” \”Dad, why are the planes flying in the sky?\” \”Dad, why are the stars twinkling?\” … For this series of questions, dads have a unified standard Answer: Ask your mother. I heard a story about a father who was watching TV attentively. His youngest son walked over and asked him a homework problem: …