Nowadays, many young parents have to work after giving birth to children. They want to provide their children with better financial security and realize their personal social value. Being a full-time dad or a full-time mother is simply unrealistic unless they accumulate enough funds. In the first three years after the child\’s birth, the heavy responsibility falls on the elderly, which makes the aunt worry about taking care of the child. Moreover, even if the aunt is hired, the elderly\’s help is indispensable. old…
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Parenting knowledge
Parents, don’t believe it, it turns out that Wang’s children have mystical skills.
Brain scientist Professor Honglan once said: \”The brain can be changed by language. It will constantly change the distribution of nerves due to external demands.\” There was a famous experiment in psychology – \”authoritative lies\” . Professor Rosenthal went to an ordinary middle school, randomly marked the names of 18 children, and said to the teacher: \”They have high IQs and are very smart.\”…
School starts in 3 weeks. Parents from kindergarten to primary school will check according to the table to see if their children meet the standards?
The transition from early childhood to primary school is an important jump in children\’s lives, and it is also a major test for parents in their children\’s educational journey. Today, I will share with parents some practical tips based on my own children\’s growth trajectory and official content to help children transition smoothly from kindergarten to primary school. Let’s talk about the learning part first: ### Chinese learning,…
The truth: Ordinary families really don’t need to enroll their children in any interest classes
This summer vacation, the only class my son attended under the scorching sun was a sketching class. Every time he came home from school, he would ask me incessantly: \”Mom, how many classes are left?\” Hearing that there were fewer and fewer classes, he felt relieved. To be honest, the sketching class has become a psychological burden for him: If he doesn\’t go, he will feel sorry for the tuition fee; if he goes…
The most suffocating family: mediocre parents who taste power in their children
The well-known blogger @王博文 has a doctorate friend whom he has known for many years. This doctor\’s parents are very strict with him. The distance between holding chopsticks, the style of clothes he buys, etc. must be in accordance with his parents\’ regulations and preferences. When he was in school, his mother would tear apart his extracurricular books, look through his drawers, read his diary, and never knock on the door when entering his room. When he achieved certain results, his father…
Only when the mother is enlightened can the child become a dark horse
How to make children obedient? The answer is to change yourself first. Parents always want their children to be obedient, but they often forget that love is a two-way street and requires mutual respect and understanding between both parties. If you want your children to be leaders in life, you must first become a wise man who can lead your children. After becoming a mother, many people\’s lives seem to be shrouded in anxiety: worrying that their children will never…
First grade admission guide, letting children know these things in advance is more important than studying
School is about to start, and many parents of new first-year students feel more or less nervous and anxious. As someone who has been there, I would like to share some things that children should pay attention to in school. These are more important than learning. Parents letting their children know this in advance can help them adapt to primary school life faster and better. 1. About going to the toilet. Maybe you think there is something good to say about going to the toilet? Not easy for kids…
It took raising a son to become a cripple to understand: The stupidest education is when parents have \”no authority\” and their children become overlords.
Early in the morning, I was so angry that I vomited blood! My son was in the first grade of junior high school and his final exam results were very unsatisfactory. Not only did the overall decline occur, but even the math test, which I am best at, got the lowest score ever. Thinking that if he continues, he might not even be able to go to high school, I feel extremely anxious. Therefore, I want him to take advantage of the vacation to catch up on his courses. I don\’t have high requirements either, as long as I can pass into high school. But he…
My child’s cough has always been bad. Sometimes you need to pay attention to this problem.
Respiratory tract infection is the most common disease in children, and cough is the most common symptom of respiratory tract infection. Therefore, many children have coughed, sometimes over and over again, and they will cough again soon after. Sometimes some people even cough for a long time without stopping. good. Most children here just have ordinary recurrent respiratory infections, which are generally not related. As they grow older, their immune system gradually…
Why do children always stick to their mothers after being scolded? The truth is sad
If you are good at observing, you will find that different children react differently to their parents\’ yelling and scolding. When you yell, your child may: appear panicked; yell hysterically at adults; run to mom in tears; ignore your yelling; reluctantly follow your parents\’ instructions… some of which may make you feel guilty The reaction is that the child will suddenly…