From the direction of my childhood, what I see is always your back… You called me to be a son, and I followed you to become a father. This is a poem from Bei Dao\’s \”For Father\”. These two poems tell the true meaning of the relationship between father and son: the father brings his son into this world, no matter how picky and challenging the son is, one day he will suddenly discover that his father\’s characteristics are also hidden in himself…
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Parenting knowledge
What is a simple and nutritious breakfast for children?
Doudou\’s grandma has returned to her hometown. Her mother must let Doudou finish her meal before going to work and send her to the kindergarten. Doudou eats very slowly. In order to save time, her mother often prepares snacks for Doudou. This makes it easy to carry around. You can also eat in the car. After this continued for a period of time, Doudou’s teacher contacted the parents and admitted that the child was not energetic in class and sometimes even took photos of himself. through…
Respecting children too much is a dereliction of duty on the part of parents
One afternoon last week, I went to pick up my children from kindergarten. When I went there, the gate of the kindergarten was not open yet, and the parents were waiting outside. I also joined the waiting army. Next to me, several parents stood chatting and overheard their conversation. A mother expressed her frustration. Her son goes to bed too late at night and can\’t get up in the morning. Every day…
What are the importance and benefits of playing in mud for children?
I saw a very interesting photo. A little boy built the Great Wall out of mud on the floor and bed of his bedroom, and also created a large wave of \”seafood creatures\”. When the boy\’s mother saw this scene, her mentality suddenly collapsed and asked whether she should be beaten or praised for such a situation. Some netizens said: \”The child is so creative, of course he should be praised!\” Some netizens said: \”To make the home like this,…
This kind of behavior of parents will leave a lifelong shadow on the children
I saw a topic on Zhihu that exposed scars: \”What is the one thing that hurts you the most about your parents?\” Many people mentioned their parents\’ verbal violence. One Zhihu friend even summed it up with a slightly ironic sentence. Words: No one is more gifted with words than parents when it comes to hurting their children. Why do so many people hold back the verbal abuse they suffered as children? Probably because…
The importance of parents bringing their children out into the world
My best friend told me excitedly that she took her child on a trip for two days during the holidays, and when she came back, she was different from before. Before traveling, she and her children planned together what kind of transportation they would take, and how to deal with an emergency? They were very happy during the whole trip. On the way, the children learned to be independent, took the initiative to carry their bags, and also took the initiative to say hello to strange friends…
What\’s so annoying about second-born kids fighting? It\’s your own wrong mentality
Fighting between the eldest child and the second child is an unavoidable problem in families with two children. Whether there are two sons, two daughters, or one son and one daughter, all kinds of fighting and fighting are inevitable. Some people say that if the age difference between the second child is large, there will be no fighting. In my opinion, unless the age gap is so big that the eldest child is already an adult when the second child is born, fighting will still occur. Our older sister is older than our younger sister…
What are the character flaws of children who are yelled at by their parents?
Psychologist Dr. Susan Forward said: \”Children cannot distinguish between facts and jokes. They will believe what their parents say about them and turn it into their own ideas.\” Parents\’ constant yelling education will often frighten their children when they are young, and will cause various personality problems when they grow up. In addition, frequent loud yelling will make the parent-child relationship worse…
Your \”good intentions\” are killing your children\’s creativity
I had a dinner date with a friend two days ago, and the conversation turned into a \”psychological consultation.\” My friend works in a university that is envied by many people. She has winter and summer vacations every year, but she says she is extremely anxious. She is more tired than anyone else. Lectures, scientific research, administration, and further studies all have to be compromised, and she may not be able to succeed. Well done. What made her even more uncomfortable was that with this step-by-step rhythm, she simply couldn\’t…
Most of the children who have always been with their mothers come from the third type of families.
As parents, we all hope that our children will always be close to us. We hope that whether their children are young or grow up, their relationship with their parents will not become alienated, and they will not have nothing to say to their parents. Especially for mothers, from the tenth month of pregnancy to the birth of the baby, the child has always been the most attached to the mother, the most dependent on the mother, and the closest to the mother. Everything is shared with the mother, and the mother is also very happy…