Many of you may have had this feeling. Faced with the concern of your parents, you feel uncomfortable but helpless. You can\’t refuse, but you can\’t feel real care because no matter what you do, it seems wrong. Because their concern is often expressed: I know what you should do, but you don’t know what you should do. Picture | The movie \”Blood Guanyin…
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Parenting knowledge
You are so good at reasoning, why do your children still refuse to listen to you?
I remember that before I was married, I once had dinner at the house of a friend who was a mother. Her son was 7 years old at the time, and he was at the age where he would \”dislike a dead dog\”. First, he would \”fly\” a fighter jet around the living room, and then he would pile blocks on the floor to build, and the jingling bells would not stop for a moment. . Suddenly, the grandma passed by the child\’s building block and accidentally knocked the blocks apart. child…
My child, why do I make you suffer [good and in-depth article]
When I went back to my hometown during the holidays, after taking a shower in the evening, I asked my daughter to wash her underwear as usual. I don’t want my mother-in-law to hear it. The grumpy mother-in-law yelled: \”Why do you want such a young child to wash clothes?\” \”Come on, dear, I\’ll wash it for you.\” Although her daughter was young, she was already used to doing her own things, so she didn\’t ask her to wash clothes for her. grandmother. The mother-in-law believes that the child must be pampered and not allowed to eat…
Mom, did I pay for the phone bill?
Diandian, who is in middle school, is a cheerful and generous little girl with a very sweet mouth. She is really loved by everyone. However, some time ago, many of Diandian\’s behaviors regressed. She became more and more clinging to her mother. She already slept alone and asked her mother to sleep with her. If her mother disagreed, she would keep crying. One time I talked in my sleep in the middle of the night and cried loudly for my mother. Mom patted and coaxed her a few times, then opened her eyes…
Every child who is not self-disciplined is disturbed by such mistakes behind his back.
Many parents have a mantra: \”If you are not good, then I will be good.\” If you don\’t do your homework now, I won\’t buy you new shoes; if you speak rudely, your iPad will be confiscated; If you continue to be undisciplined in class, you will be beaten… Shafali Sabari, a famous American psychologist and a doctor of psychology at Columbia University, put this kind of discipline…
When the child was young, I didn’t have time to accompany you, but when I am old, you should come home often to visit me.
My friend Xiaoxue had a fight with her husband and decided to run away from home. So, he came to stay with me at night. She said angrily that I was determined to get a divorce this time. I knew she was just talking casually, so I deliberately provoked her, \”Where will you go after divorce?\” Xiaoxue said, I will live here with you. I said, please, you are such a troublesome woman, I don’t want to live with you. Then I\’ll rent it alone…
Children are most afraid of these three types of parents!
Every day, when taking Xiao Xiaoyu to school, she will meet many children. As long as you pay a little attention, you will find that children and parents are not just similar in appearance. You will find that the behavior is also extremely close. Of course, outside, adults have learned to hide, while children appear to be straightforward. So after waiting for a while and getting familiar with it, you will find that it really is this…
Children over 1 year old never call mommy, the truth behind it is…
In a week\’s time it will be my colleague\’s child Shuoshuo\’s first birthday. Everyone was discussing what gifts to buy for their children, but they found that Shuoshuo\’s mother (Xiaoya) was not very excited, and even complained a little, muttering \”This child was raised in vain\”, and she seemed to be a bitch. . It turns out that what annoys Xiaoya doesn\’t matter at all in the eyes of people who come here – Shuoshuo has never screamed…
The label you inadvertently put on your child may be a curse for your child\’s life.
Yesterday, my best friend and I had dinner together with our own small oil bottle. His baby is eight years old and has just entered third grade. Talking about the children\’s academic performance, my best friend said angrily: \”My baby can\’t speak English well, and I\’m so worried!\” The two children were having fun, and when my best friend\’s baby heard this, his eyes darkened. I quickly made a look and said, \”No, I…
To raise an organized baby, don’t ignore the order sensitive period
What is the order sensitive period? In Montessori education, according to the characteristics of the baby\’s growth process, several different sensitive periods are subdivided, such as sensory sensitive period (0-5 years old), number sensitive period (4-5 and a half years old), language sensitive period Sensitive period (0-6 years old), social norm sensitive period (2-6 years old), etc. Sensitive periods are often emphasized in Montessori philosophy because they can help us better understand…