The biggest scam in education: It’s called releasing children’s nature!

There is a kind of education called releasing children\’s nature. They put children on the pedestal and regard releasing children\’s \”nature\” as inevitable, legal and natural. Of course, the final result is that the children do not grow up to be what their parents want. Bears, wild, uneducated, and unruly children have become the best synonyms for such children. This is not nature education, it is rubbish education, and it sounds very…

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No matter how successful your career is, it cannot make up for the failure of educating your children! No matter how busy you are, you still have to take a look

Some time ago, a mother asked Youma about a problem: her child is not interested in studying and plays games after school. Recently, he has started skipping school and absenteeism. The teacher talked to me several times, and his father and I were worried to death. In the end, What should I do? Youma asked her: When did the child become obsessed with games? “It started in kindergarten, and his dad and I didn’t pay much attention to it at the time, plus we…

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How did you end up raising your child?

Are you loving your children, or are you doting on them? Well-known education expert Yin Jianli wrote in \”A Good Mother is Better than a Good Teacher 2\”: The essence of doting is control, and the essence of love is giving freedom. Doting is not giving too much love, but controlling, possessing and arranging substitution in the name of love. Parents are intoxicated with the happiness of giving and become surrogate parents, depriving their children of their independence…

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Are children easily bullied? Self-defense prevents children from becoming \”soft persimmons\” in the future

The plot of \”School Bullying in Secondary 2\” is changing day by day. It is impossible to judge right from wrong. Chang\’s father has no intention of following the drama. How will the truth be verified by time? I think, from our perspective, I just want to ask the most practical question: \”How to prevent children from becoming easily bullied in the future?\” Why is your child easily bullied? I have been thinking for a long time whether I should start like this, after all, I wrote this as soon as I started…

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What should I do if my newborn doesn’t sleep well?

Question 1: My baby is 7 months old. Ever since he choked on milk twice a few days ago, he keeps turning over when sleeping. In the past few days, I have not dared to add complementary foods, and I have not dared to feed too much milk. Doctor, what\’s going on? Is there anything I need to pay special attention to? Can complementary foods be added later? Doctor Wang Yanli answered: After choking, some small milk powder particles will enter the trachea or lungs, causing an inflammatory reaction…

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Sad! A 10-year-old boy couldn\’t stand up after playing on the trampoline three times in a row. The truth is worth pondering for parents.

Various extreme sports in the adult world are diverse and exciting! For example, it is as follows: Children can easily like these stimulating games. This is a business opportunity. So, this kind of large-scale toys appeared. Don’t say you haven’t seen it before. Many parents are playing with their children on streets, shopping malls, and amusement parks across the country! But this jumping style of play hides great safety…

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Why does oral thrush recur in babies?

Question 1: Dr. Cui, my baby got thrush early last month. Later, I asked you to use cod liver oil and Nystat for four days to get better. Then I used it for another three days. I didn’t take any medicine until it was completely cured. As a result, I stopped taking the medicine for two days and it started to relapse. It grows in different places every time, over and over again. What\’s going on? Dr. Cui Lixia answered: The first reason for babies suffering from thrush is long-term antibiotics…

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This kind of expectation will harm your children

A few of us middle-aged women were having a party and having a good time. Sister Ping suddenly dropped her chopsticks and ran out to answer the phone. I answered the phone for a long time, and when I came back, I looked very unhappy. We asked her what happened? She said angrily: \”Xiaolei\’s teacher took a mock test, and she only got 77 in math, and she was 18th from the bottom of the class.\” I asked, \”How many people are there in their class?\” \”There were originally 40 of them…

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How to educate your children is how you invest in the rest of your life

I think a child\’s EQ is more important than IQ, and moral character is more important than ability. Parents mainly use two words to cultivate their children: persistence. Persist in daily life, persevere in every link, and persevere all the time. Everyone knows the principle of family education. The key is which parent can persist! Three questions to ask parents. If parents are a position, then this position is accompanied by children…

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My child, studying is not hard, but life is hard if you don’t study.

On the second day of the New Year\’s Day holiday, I came back from outside and saw my daughter playing games in the living room. I\’m a little angry: You are playing again. Didn\’t the teacher leave any homework? Why don\’t you even read the book? The daughter said impatiently: Mom, I do papers every day until I vomit. Studying is too hard. I just have some fun during the holidays. I asked her, do you remember that uncle in the country? The daughter nodded: Remember, isn’t it…

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