After watching Huang Lei’s daughter, I realized what is the most important thing in educating children

Your children are actually not your children. —— Kahlil Gibran Huang Lei’s daughter Duoduo has always been loved by netizens. Recently, Duoduo has become popular again. At a young age, she has made a name for herself in the art field at home and abroad. First, she voiced the role of the \”little girl\” in the French animated film \”The Little Prince\”, and then appeared at the Bonpoint show in Paris last year. (Appeared at Paris Bo…

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What the 5-year-old daughter said shocked her mother, and the reason behind it turned out to be…

The young mother bought a carp and wanted to make fish soup for her daughter in kindergarten. The carp was placed on the chopping board and jumped so high. The timid daughter stood at the kitchen door from a distance and watched the excitement. When the fish jumped, she would scream. Suddenly, she exclaimed to her mother: \”Mom, mom, come and see – the fish is injured! The fish is bleeding!\” Her mother, who was changing clothes, heard…

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I know it\’s very annoying to talk to my children about their sorrows and sweet things, but how can I resist being so mean! ?

As a person with very clear childhood memories, Chengzi once swore that I would never remember the bitter and the sweet with my own children. Because my mother loved to do this when I was a child, and she would often tell stories about her bitterness and hatred when she was a child: My parents valued boys over girls since I was a child. I started doing housework at the age of four or five. I carried my younger brothers and sisters on my back when I was six. On weekdays, I had to fetch water and chop firewood. Feed pigs, chickens, wash clothes and cook… OK…

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My child, don’t settle for second best and break your wings to fly.

Because I have written some articles about education before, some teachers from middle schools and even universities have shared them with students in class. Many children followed the pictures and followed my WeChat official account. There is a kid named Pengpeng, a junior high school student, who occasionally leaves messages behind my backstage. Most of them talk about how to get along with classmates, parents don\’t care about him, etc…

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Smart parents let their children become themselves

The moment I saw my cousin Yulian during the Spring Festival, I was shocked: Why is my cousin so haggard? My cousin burst into tears before she said anything: Cousin, I have no face to see you. My son has not given me any grandchildren even after ten years of marriage. How do you think I can go out to meet people? People who are about the same age as me often take their grandchildren with them or hold their hands when they go out. What do I have? \”Wouldn\’t it be more comfortable without…

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A 4-year-old child always wore sloppy clothes to school and was severely criticized by the teacher. After learning the truth, everyone was envious

Four-year-old Jim goes to school. But he has been very distressed recently. He found that his mother seemed to be getting more and more \”lazy\”. His mother\’s \”laziness\” made his life a mess. Often wearing dirty clothes to school, one pair of shoes in two places, spending half a day trying to find another sock, even if it is a different style. Monday, what a vibrant and joyful day…

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The child wants whatever he sees, and if he doesn\’t buy it, he just messes around? Beware of hidden power struggles between you

Once, Cheng Zi and I went to 798 to play. There are many small shops there selling all kinds of creative gadgets. Once the orange enters the eye, it becomes too busy. After a while, he ran over and said: Mom, buy me this fidget spinner. After a while, she pulled my arm: Mom, I want that sword. Seeing that I was about to fall into a tug-of-war of \”agree – refuse\”, I took out 50…

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How much have you misunderstood about \”Invisible Dad\”?

During the six months when Dad C went to study, I often thought about how important these two roles are as a \”husband\” in a marriage relationship and as a \”father\” in a parent-child relationship? There was a very popular article some time ago, saying that Chinese women have widowed parenting styles. , widowhood marriage. The following sentence is a bit sharp, but I still want to say: The person who really said this must not be really widowed or widowed, but just to satisfy one…

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The viral \”sleeping in separate rooms\” age has deceived countless children

I received a request for help from my best friend on WeChat early in the morning: A few days ago, we decided to officially divide the rooms after my son’s fifth birthday. It\’s a pity that the child is crying, throwing around and rolling around all the time. It has been for several days in a row. We have tried all kinds of methods and still insists on sleeping with us… I beg for all kinds of tips! My best friend said: Many experts say that if a child cannot sleep independently before the age of 5, it may…

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Which is more effective in teaching children well, being a nanny or being an idol?

To be a good parent, you must first be the best version of yourself. Every year at relatives’ gatherings, there are all kinds of naughty children. It is no longer uncommon to have loud quarrels around the dinner table, and it is even more common for melon seeds and peanuts to fall on the floor. Children\’s words and conversations are all brought up by their parents, which is absolutely correct. People who have never raised children complain that today’s parents are too spoiled to their children. Raising children…

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