For some parents, they can only feel at ease by \”watching\” their children completing tasks all day long. This kind of behavior that seems to be \”for the good of the child\” and \”for the purpose of cultivating the child\” may achieve good results in the short term, but it is not conducive to the long-term development of the child. In fact, the purpose of \”staring\” is not to make children \”obey\” their parents\’ demands, but to train…
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Key middle school teacher: The difference between top achievers and average students is not at all in IQ level, but in these three points, top achievers perform too well!
A teacher from a key middle school made a comparison between top students and average students. He said that the difference between a top student and an average student is never about IQ level, but the following three points. Point 1: The level of willpower. Willpower plays a very important role in the learning process. When a child is working on a difficult problem and still can\’t solve it after thinking hard, at this time, the child\’s…
What parents and children need to know: There is a huge difference between positive emotions and negative emotions, and life is completely different
The day before yesterday, I wrote that I confiscated my daughter’s mobile phone, quarreled with the child, and refused to make a fuss. She was very sad and made a fuss for two days. Last night, my eldest daughter told me that they were taking psychology classes during the day and the teacher asked them to understand emotions. The teacher said that when encountering problems, positive emotions and negative emotions have completely different effects. Regarding the mobile phone issue, my daughter said that she has positive emotions now and does not have a mobile phone…
If you have a child with a bad temper, be sure to understand these 4 effects and do not confront the child head-on.
A mother asked for help on Zhihu: My child\’s temper has become particularly bad now and he will smash things when he is unhappy. How should I educate him? She said that one time during lunch, she asked her child to turn off the TV, but the child refused and hit her hard with the remote control. At that time, the child\’s father said a few words to him, and he started crying. The father was forced to slap him hard in the face. But even so…
Why should we travel with kids? This is the best answer I’ve ever heard
During the \”National Day\” holiday, many parents take their children to travel. Traveling can enrich the children\’s horizons and increase their knowledge… But the purpose of travel is not to take the children to watch the flowers and blindly follow the trend. What can traveling bring to the children? Parents traveling with their children What\’s the point…
The first grader couldn\’t complete four tasks, so I found a \”crutch\”
Writing is very troublesome for first-year students. 1. Pen holding posture. Reading children\’s songs and responding to passwords is no problem. \”The boss and the second child are not aligned, and there is a gap between the fingers. The third child comes down to help, and the fourth and fifth children hide in.\” \”Write in three ones, one inch, one punch, and one foot.\” Pick it up and make a show, as if Both are correct. Who would have thought that I would start writing with various gestures…
After watching the 6-minute short film \”Gone with the Wind\”, I realized why outstanding children always have anti-involutionary parents behind them.
What would you do if your child could fly? In Pixar\’s award-winning short film \”Gone with the Wind\”, there is such a boy who can fly. The father took his child out to play and unexpectedly discovered that his child could fly. Other children stay in the arms of their parents obediently, but his child will fly away from his father\’s arms if he is not careful. Seeing the strange looks from others, my father felt extremely embarrassed…
Be sure to tell your children: Never be kind in these four situations
We teach our children to be kind since childhood, but in today’s complicated world, how many children and even adults have been killed by kindness? Do we have to teach our children not to be kind from an early age? This also goes against our principles of life! Then please at least tell your children that in these four situations, you must put away your kindness! 1 You are weak and he is strong. One day, a mother was late to pick up her child from school…
4 secrets for teachers to rank first in teaching performance
In the vast starry sky of education, every teacher is a star that works silently, and the teacher who ranks first in teaching performance has become the brightest guide in the hearts of students with his unique teaching wisdom and unremitting efforts. . 1. Cultivate students\’ study habits. Study habits are the cornerstone of students\’ lifelong learning. They determine students\’ attitude and efficiency when facing knowledge. Teaching becomes…
A child\’s greatest happiness comes from being allowed to do these 4 things by his parents when he was a child
As children develop, so-called “value” is not always obvious. What may be considered irrelevant now may become critical elements of a child’s development in the future. Pushing the so-called \”worthless\” to the extreme, it may also become extremely \”valuable\”. As Zhuangzi said: \”Everyone knows the uses of useful things, but no one knows the uses of useless things.\” Some things in children\’s lives…