After an autumn outing notice was sent to the parent group… I finally understood why the child was not living up to expectations.

Recently, the parent committee of a third-grade primary school class in Haining, Zhejiang, wanted to organize a weekend one-day trip to take the children out to have fun and relax. However, they never expected that when the news of this event was released, After arriving in the class group – there are 40 people in a class, but only 4 students have no interest classes on Sunday. This number is really shocking! Being like this…

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Cultivating children, good habits are more important than good scores

The famous educator Mr. Ye Shengtao once said: \”What education is, to put it simply, there is only one sentence, which is to develop good habits.\” However, now many families and school education have gone astray. Everyone pays too much attention to their children\’s scores and does not care about the development of their habits. In fact, good habits are not only helpful for learning, but also improve…

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Without this foundational ability, it will be difficult for children to gain a foothold in future society.

In the 21st century, which quality of a child is the most valuable? Some parents may ask, today\’s children have been under heavy academic pressure since they entered elementary school. They do homework late every day and attend various extracurricular classes. Will you be so anxious when Edamame will go to elementary school in the future? Will you force him? I can honestly say: I won’t. The reason why I say this is not because I don\’t care about my children\’s academic…

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Your child has never said these words to you, but you must know them.

Sometimes, when we educate our children, they remain silent and do not express their feelings directly. However, even if the child doesn’t say it, parents must also understand their child’s “subtext” and understand their child’s real needs. \”I\’m not disobedient, I just want to get your attention. I need care.\” A friend who is a teacher said that there was a little boy in the class…

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Please \”waste\” your time on your children

A few days ago, a mother left a message in the background: \”Why do I feel so bad every time I play with my children? Because it takes half an hour for my children to do something that can be done in one minute, and they still enjoy it. I feel My time was wasted like this, and I couldn\’t help but feel nervous.\” Seeing this, many parents feel this way. \”The child is really struggling, I…

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Why can’t you be a good parent despite being well versed in all kinds of parenting knowledge?

One day I joked with a friend: When we were young, all parenting problems were children\’s problems. Now it\’s our turn to take care of our children, and all parenting issues have become parents\’ issues again. One sentence cannot conceal the various feelings. We, a generation that grew up under the sticks and authority of our parents, now have to raise the next generation with love and freedom. We often don’t know how…

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The way you force your children to share is really ugly.

Where there are children, there is \”war\”. No, two more children \”fighted\” over a toy: The younger boy said: \”This is my toy!\” The older boy said: \”Lend it to me.\” Play and I\’ll return it to you later!\” \”No! This is mine!\” At this time, the mother of the younger child intervened: \”A good baby must know how to share! Play with your brother…

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Do you also have a child in your family who \”makes people grow old\”?

Another new year is approaching. I don’t want to say that I am old, but I would rather say that I am one year older. A 30-year-old person still has a young and naive heart. No one will give me lucky money or buy me new clothes during the Chinese New Year. We have become a new generation of exporters of lucky money and a new generation of compradors. Before I got married, I used to say, \”Time makes you grow old.\” After getting married, you no longer say \”Time makes you grow old…\”

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The baby goes to bed too late, and there is no time to read before going to bed. How to spend time raising a baby to be efficient?

The most scarce asset for everyone is time. Because we are pressed for time, we often feel anxious and feel like we can’t get anything done. After waiting for the baby to go to bed, I do something else, but before I go to bed, I look at it and realize, wow, it’s 12 o’clock again; I can’t get up in the morning, and I am almost late for work; at the end of the week, I find that I have done nothing! After half a year, I feel that I have learned nothing and am getting older in vain…

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