How to train children to do their own things?

A college student with excellent academic performance gave up the opportunity to study abroad because he couldn\’t handle his life. This sounds like a big joke, but it is an absolutely true fact. Since 20 years ago, our society has called on parents to face up to the problem of over-indulgence of only children, and encouraged parents to focus on cultivating their children\’s independent will to do their own things from an early age…

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My child is not worthy of a good mother like me

In a parent class, a mother said that she had done a really good job. From the time her child was one year old, she told her children stories every night, taught them how to read, memorize poems, and play games. He is always kind to his children and never scolds or hits them. Always allow and affirm. The relationship with the children is very good. The children are willing to say anything and dare to say anything. I even bought pornographic comics, just…

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Children don’t learn how to communicate with children well

Parents often face problems when their children encounter difficulties in the learning process or are unwilling to study well. As parents, we need to communicate well with our children, find a learning method that suits them, and help them establish a positive learning attitude and learning habits. This article will introduce some methods and techniques for communicating with children to help parents better cooperate with their children and promote their…

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Such a heartbreaking thing happened when I took my daughter on a trip. My mother was so regretful that she sat on the ground and cried bitterly!

Ms. Dong is a clerk in a company with a low income. She usually spends money very frugally, but she is particularly generous to her two-and-a-half-year-old daughter Lili. In order to let Lili grow up healthily, Ms. Dong does not hesitate to spend a lot of money. During this year\’s Dragon Boat Festival, Ms. Dong spent 3,688 yuan to sign up for a tour group to Hangzhou, hoping to open her daughter\’s eyes and gain insights. What Ms. Dong didn\’t expect was that…

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Professor from Tsinghua University: Only by enduring hardship can one become a master?

Chinese parents like to teach their children: only by enduring hardship can one become a master. You must endure hardship today to have happiness tomorrow. Many mothers have been planning for their children\’s lifelong happiness since prenatal education, including prenatal education classes, early childhood education classes, everything from piano and dance to Mathematical Olympiad and English… for fear that if their children miss one class, they will lose the capital for future happiness. But can you be happy if you get into a good university? …

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Three pitfalls that parents must avoid when helping their children with homework

As the new semester begins, Xiaojiazhai plans to launch a series of articles to provide parents with necessary help. Today I will focus on how to avoid falling into the trap of doing homework with your children. What is the hardest thing about spending time with children? I believe that most parents will blurt out and accompany their children to do homework. Indeed, doing homework with their children is the most troublesome and anxious thing for parents. \”Not writing…

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From Liu Xiang to Sun Yang declaring war on Horton, the definition of Olympic gold medals has changed

On August 7, 2016, Beijing time, with only 0.13 seconds difference, Sun Yang lost to Australian rising star Horton in the men\’s 400-meter freestyle competition and won a silver medal. After the game, whether Sun Yang \”won\” the silver medal or \”regretly lost\” the gold medal sparked a big discussion among netizens. At noon, a friend sent me a message and wanted to discuss this issue with me. I was coaxing classmate Zhe to take a nap, so I just…

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Why does the son hate his mother?

I feel that every baby loves its mother deeply. Before they are born, they already share the same breath and fate with their mother. It is natural for mother and child to be connected, but it may not last forever. \”I hate you and never want to see you again.\” How much does the child hate his mother when he says this? Xiaofang is a tenant living in our community. She and her husband both come to the city to work. This…

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The key to cultivating children\’s 3 good habits + 2 abilities in grades 1, 2 and 3

In the process of children\’s education, parents often focus on their children\’s grades and neglect to cultivate their children\’s good habits and abilities. Especially for children in grades one, two, and three, paying too much attention to grades may put too much pressure on them, which in turn affects their interest in learning and all-round development. Therefore, parents should turn their attention to raising their children…

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Those qualities you want to cultivate in your children, all you need to do is give up the toys.

In the first year after Little D was born, I bought a lot of toys. The \”smart toys\” recommended by the cognitive teacher were just the tip of the iceberg. They accounted for less than 10% of Little D\’s toy library, so why didn\’t I write about the rest? Because Little D was already 1 year old when I opened this official account. I am not afraid of not knowing the goods but I am afraid of comparing goods. Through Little D’s personal practice and my own observation this year, I have to admit that I have…

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