What are you hiding in your \”anxiety\” about your children and your \”efforts\” for your children?

The parents of a \”problem boy\” were often invited to the school for talks. This boy is talented and smart but has no ambition, always falls behind in his grades, and no matter criticism or encouragement, it always has no effect on him. Even with one-on-one tutoring on topics he didn\’t know, he looked absent-minded, as if nothing around him could arouse his interest. At once…

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Should we punish children when educating them?

Go to the corner, stand there, and reflect. Bring me my slippers, I have to teach this naughty boy a lesson. If your performance is so poor, I won’t buy you any toys. Anyone who has raised children has probably said something like the above. When children make mistakes or perform poorly, we must teach them a lesson, otherwise they will not remember it. As the saying goes: \”Three days…

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If you don’t teach your children the twenty-four filial piety, then you can give them the best love

Yesterday, I passed by a sports square and was surprised to see a huge promotional wall with pictures and text on the Twenty-Four Filial Piety. People were coming and going under the wall, and people stopped to watch from time to time. The copy next to it said: Filial piety is the essence of the traditional culture of the Chinese nation, and the story of the Twenty-Four Filial Piety is a national treasure. The essence of your sister! National treasure, your sister! For those who are still promoting such anti-human values ​​to this day, your conscience really won’t…

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You repeat these practices that ruin your children’s grades every day

When we were taking the bus in the morning, the grandmother in the seat next to her was loudly teaching her granddaughter addition and subtraction. \”2 and which number combine to be 9\”, \”2 and which number to combine is 7\”, \”3 and which number to combine is 8\”… The little girl answered very slowly and often made mistakes. Grandma is getting more and more impatient. Later, grandma repeated the same thing angrily…

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Good parents raise children, bad parents keep slaves. Which one are you?

Saw this news. A couple in their sixties had an only daughter. They both loved their daughter very much. The girl wants to study abroad after graduating from high school. The couple sold their large house and replaced it with a smaller one to raise enough money for their daughter to study abroad. After graduation, the girl found a job and a boyfriend in the United States. She planned to marry her boyfriend and settle in the United States. Faced with this…

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You are not a rough person, why can\’t you help but get angry with your children?

There are often messages from mothers in the background, asking for advice on how to control themselves and not get angry with their children. It is not easy not to be angry with your children, because sometimes parents\’ anger with their children is not caused directly by the children, but by some indirect factors. For example: Parents are overtired. anxiety. Taking on too many household chores. Couple relationship problems. Work pressure…

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What happens to parents who cannot control their emotions?

I saw the news in the past two days. On April 30 this year, a young mother lost control of her emotions. It was said in the news that she took her family on a self-driving trip that day, and there was her old mother and her one-year-old child in the car. During the trip, she had a few quarrels with her mother. She angrily parked the car on the highway acceleration ramp, locked the door and drove off. At this time, the outdoor temperature…

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Parents must be wary of these behaviors of children [Don’t regret it]

If you don\’t practice hard, but you study literature, you will be flashy, who will you become? This story is for all parents who hope their sons will succeed and their daughters will succeed. I hope my experience can give you some inspiration and help you avoid detours on the way to raising your children. 01 My daughter Youyou lives up to her name and is an outstanding child in everyone’s eyes. She is beautiful, has a lively personality, is versatile and is a top student. I just want to be rich…

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What kind of children will those irritable parents raise?

A friend forwarded a video to me, which has been widely circulated these days. It shows a mother stepping on her biological daughter on the street in Xiaoshan, Hangzhou. I couldn’t bear to see children and animals being abused the most in my life. I felt so sad when I saw it. I told my friend, “In a situation like this, you will definitely be deprived of custody rights in a foreign country.” The friend defended the mother, “She would rather be hungry. I also want to buy it for my child…

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