Chen Mo, a psychological education expert, told a story: A mother asked her about parent-child education when her child was in the second grade of elementary school. This child was in the class with the worst grades and the slowest writing. All the other children had finished the paper, but he only finished half of it. Many years later, when she talked to this mother again, her child had become a top student. after all…
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Parenting knowledge
The 6 most critical things in kindergarten are all more important than academic performance
What are the main concerns of many parents? Academic performance! But in fact, at this stage, academic performance is really not that important. Don\’t rush to refute, let\’s talk about the six things that are really critical in the kindergarten stage. Everything is more important than grades. The first thing: Cultivate children\’s independence. Many parents like to do everything for their children. Dressing, eating, putting away toys…
Do conversations with adolescent children always get tense and end badly? Because you are always reacting and not adapting
If there are adolescent children at home, many parents will be cautious when talking to their children. If they say something wrong, the children will close the door and refuse to communicate. Some parents have good intentions and want to give advice, but their children are impatient and end up becoming tense and unhappy. Why is this happening? Because many times, our conversations with our children are reactions rather than smooth…
Looking back after 6 years of studying in primary school, most of the chicken kids in primary school were doing useless work. There are only 6 things that are really important.
Parents in primary school are particularly prone to anxiety, fearing that their children will lose at the starting line. Some children are only in the first grade of primary school, and their parents take them out to make up for various classes. When they return home, they are also assigned various study tasks, such as brushing up on English grading materials and test papers. The children are exhausted and the parents are not relaxed either. In fact, it is really not advisable to assign overly heavy learning tasks to children in primary school and overdraft…
Class WeChat group \”kills everyone\”: Don\’t let parents like this get used to you
01 Many things have been breaking through our inherent cognition. You think some things are already at the ceiling, but you never expect to change the scene to the horizon level. Just like the match between the national football team and the Japanese team a few days ago, 0:7, which directly caused cognitive collapse. You can\’t even imagine what miracles will happen to the national football team. And the chat history of the WeChat group of Yulin class in Guangxi…
Children in first and second grade cannot rely solely on teachers. No matter how many extra classes they make up, it is better to plan their evening time.
Sitting in the same classroom, taught by the same teacher, and using the same textbooks, why are the learning effects so different? The gap between classmates comes from the time arrangements after returning home. So, how should we arrange our children’s time after school? Based on my family’s situation, I would like to share it with you. First, outdoor sports. There are few classes for the first and second graders. School ends at 3:30. us…
New first grade teacher: 5 key points and 4 taboos for parents to help children transition smoothly to junior high school
One week after the first child started school, the school held a parent-teacher meeting. The head teacher said frankly that when some children first enter junior high school, the transition only takes a week, and some even take a semester. The difference in time will definitely have an impact on learning. The teacher emphasized 5 key points and 4 taboos for parents to help children quickly and smoothly transition from elementary school to junior high school, and shared them with everyone. 01 5 key points 1…
Really good family education has nothing to do with children
Many parents are confused like this: Why do my children have mediocre or even poor grades despite being strict with them, while some families do not discipline their children very well, but their children are outstanding? Not only children, there are many seemingly abnormal things in life, but we always dismiss them lightly with a sigh. If we can think more, we will gain something. In fact, any abnormality…
After six years of studying with me, I discovered: This is how the top achievers in primary schools plan their plans.
After the summer vacation, my child has entered a key junior high school. Looking back on the past six years of studying with him, I am filled with emotion. I used to think that children\’s academic performance depended on talent and luck, but after six long years of accompanying me in primary school, I deeply realized that being a top student in primary school was actually carefully planned. 1. Follow the four \”basic principles\” 1. Focus on cultivating good students in lower grades…
Parents should never say these four sentences to their children again!
There are four things we should pay attention to, and never tell them to your children. Otherwise, no matter how much you love your children, they may feel insecure, have no independent opinions, or even have low self-esteem and cowardice when they grow up. These four sentences have a long-term psychological impact on children. Once harm is caused, it will be too late to regret. The first sentence is, \”Don\’t cause trouble for me, our family can\’t afford it.\” Such words will make…