What should I play with my 12-month-old baby to make him smarter?

Since I started writing about babies\’ \”Smart Games\” topic, I have received a lot of questions. Everyone thinks that I am writing too slowly. The baby is more than ten months old. When can we wait? I am as considerate as an orange, and today I will launch a special topic on smart games for children over 12 months old! Babies and toddlers go hand in hand! There are also three games every week, I hope you all like it! Where…

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How to cultivate a sound personality and mental health education for children before the age of 10

Professor Li Meijin gave a speech some time ago: \”Character determines destiny more than ability.\” In fact, before a child is 10 years old, the most important thing is not toys or grades, nor school districts and interest classes, but psychological education and character development. . 01 It is better to count ten pieces than to win one piece. The famous American psychologist Rosenthal once conducted such an experiment: He put…

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You have nothing to say to your child, why not start with this?

What should I do if I have nothing to say to my child? Last weekend, a mother came to the picture book library. She told her worriedly that there was no common topic between her and her daughter. It turned out that her daughter was ten years old and in fourth grade. Before the second grade of elementary school, my daughter was very close to her and was willing to share anything with her mother. And since the third grade, I suddenly found that my daughter is no longer willing to…

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The height of mother and father determines the starting point of the child

We often say: Family is a child’s first school, and parents are their children’s first teachers. Educating your children well is the most important undertaking in a parent\’s life, and it is also an honor that cannot be surpassed by any success. Educator Rousseau said: \”A person\’s education begins when he is born. He has already been educated before he can speak or listen to others.\”…

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The baby\’s brain is most afraid of \”starving\”, so what can really nourish the brain?

I recently attended a lecture at a pediatric hospital here in New York to learn about the milestones of baby brain development and learned several interesting knowledge points: 1. When the baby is born, the ratio of the head to the body will be a bit strange, and the head will appear to be very big. Because when a baby is born, the brain already accounts for a large proportion of the body. 0-3 years old is the period when the brain develops most rapidly. When a baby is 3…

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What should I do if my 10-year-old child is fragile and cries?

I accidentally saw a video that reminded me of it for several days. A little girl who was only 4 or 5 years old practiced her speech in front of the mirror: \”People don\’t need to like you, they don\’t need to love you, they don\’t even need to respect you. But when you look in the mirror, you have to love what you see. Everything. Thanks to those who criticized me, thank you.\” Looking at the confidence radiating from the little girl…

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You think you are a full-time mother, but he thinks you are a full-time nanny

In order for their children to have a good life background, many women quit the workplace and became full-time mothers, but they were regarded as full-time nannies by men… Juaner fell out with her husband again. The reason was that Juaner wanted to sign herself up for a dance training class. Her husband not only disagreed, but also said a few words to her, telling her to take good care of the children more than anything else and to study more nutritious dishes…

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What kind of family can allow children to grow up healthily and happily?

I have been engaged in psychological counseling for children and adolescents for more than 30 years, and have conducted nearly 10,000 psychological counseling sessions. Especially after 2000, cases increased exponentially. Through in-depth exploration of these cases, I found that children’s problems are almost always family problems. Only when each family member performs his or her own duties and finds his or her own role can he or she help children grow up healthily and happily. …

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Is it harmful for a baby to be picky about food? He should be congratulated! This is the first time that he has made his own decision.

My child Edamame started to be picky when he was almost 1 year old. It turned out that when the complementary food was pureed, he would eat anything. But when he was allowed to choose his own food, he became picky. He eats pumpkins but refuses to eat sweet potatoes; he eats green vegetables but refuses to eat carrots. I was very anxious, but grandma was very worried, so she simply put a spoon to her mouth to feed her, and of course what she got was… again and again…

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How to develop a self-disciplined person in your child

Every parent hopes that their children can take the initiative in doing things, study more seriously, take care of their own affairs, and let their parents worry less. But the children always find various reasons to procrastinate, dawdle, and do things perfunctorily. They always procrastinate in doing things and are not self-disciplined enough. Their parents worry very hard, but it is ineffective. Parents are worried because their children still can\’t get up on time, refuse to eat well, and…

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