In an issue of \”Round Table School\”, guests discussed a phenomenon – \”Why are our children becoming more and more vulnerable?\” Among them, teacher Zhou Yijun\’s analysis was very insightful. She said that all over the world, children are not very resilient to stress. An American sociologist even wrote a book about this, \”How Steel Wasn\’t Tempered.\” Zhou Yijun summarized three points…
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Parenting knowledge
In the first grade, Chinese depends on accumulation, do a good job in this matter
I have been reading \”How to Learn Ancient Prose\” for the past few days, and it clearly states the method of learning at the beginning: read it thoroughly and chant it. The article gives many examples: In ancient times, private school teaching did not focus on meaning, but only taught reading, and all the articles taught had to be recited; Sima Qian, Wang Bo, Cao Zhi, etc. were all able to recite ancient prose when they were young. Lu Shuxiang, a master of linguistics, said that when he was a child, the first thing he read was to recite, reading classic articles in his stomach…
First grade, learn Chinese easily
I heard a joke: \”I killed people in my previous life, but I teach Chinese in this life.\” It expressed the Chinese teacher\’s helplessness. There seems to be a consensus that Chinese is difficult to teach and learn. Judging from the actual learning results, Chinese subjects take the longest time to learn and the slowest results. There are many people who have graduated from undergraduate degree and still cannot write a short essay fluently. To improve the effect of Chinese learning, you must improve your Chinese learning ability…
I regret that I only know now, 20 moments when my child felt strongly loved
Yesterday, my eldest daughter had an appointment with her classmates to play on the beach. My classmate\’s mother and I also had a chat. During the chat, she complained that she was very kind to the second child, but yesterday my daughter cried and said that she was partial. She asked her daughter why she said that. The daughter said that when her brother came back, her mother took care of him and did not take her out to play. She also bought shoes for him and took him out to eat. Isn\’t this common? …
Parents of junior high school students: If I had to do it over again, I would force my children to study hard starting from the first grade of elementary school
A parent of a junior high school student said that after his child entered junior high school, his studies became more and more useless. In elementary school, the homework was simple and he could help with it. After entering junior high school, there was nothing he could do. The child\’s grades are poor and his handwriting is poor. The parent feels very anxious every day, worried that the child will not be admitted to high school in the future. He repeatedly said that he regretted not starting from the first grade of elementary school…
A great mother is worth all the great education
Zheng Yuanjie, the king of fairy tales, once said: \”The meaning of mother is influence.\” By looking at a child\’s moral character, you can see the atmosphere of his family and the quality of his parents. I deeply agree. In a family, the person who has the greatest influence on a child is the mother, and the mother\’s influence on the child\’s life is indelible. Especially in China, in most families, the mother is responsible for educating…
Whether a child can be admitted to 985 and 211 universities can actually be determined in junior high school. The key lies in 4 points.
As parents, we all hope that our children can enter a good university, preferably 985 and 211 universities. The gold content of the diploma is relatively higher and the employment prospects are better. So when will we know whether the child is capable? In fact, you don’t have to wait until high school, you can see it in junior high school. It mainly depends on 4 points. Children with these 4 characteristics will be admitted to a 985 or 211 university and…
Once parents become enlightened, their children will become dark horses
Because of the characteristics of my profession, I come into contact with more parents and children, and because I am a teacher at an off-campus training institution, it is easier for me to see the \”true face\” of parents. Many parents have few opportunities and are relatively reserved in their performance in front of public school teachers. According to my findings, most parents are ignorant when educating their children. It can also be said that those parents who are enlightened all train…
How to communicate with adolescent children? Recommended to collect~
01 Some adolescent depression can be improved in this way. Parents ask, a girl in the second grade of junior high school often gets angry for a long time because of our words. Very common words, such as \”I won\’t wait for you if you keep complaining\”, she thinks it is scolding her, because She always looks very decadent, and she is exhausted both physically and mentally from coaxing her. Do I need to see a psychiatrist… 1. I have written a lot about early childhood education in the past few years, \”…
After many years of studying with children, I have found that no matter how many classes children in the first and second grades have to make up for, it is not as good as planning their time after school.
The neighbor\’s child does not go home after school every day. He plays in the community until 7 o\’clock. He comes home and has dinner at almost 8 o\’clock, and then starts to do homework. At this time, he is sleepy and tired, and his homework is procrastinated. He writes until 10 o\’clock every day. Still can’t finish writing. The first and second grades of primary school are important stages for cultivating children\’s study habits, so be sure to help your children plan their time after school. Quickly solve school homework for children…