Stop punishing your kids because it doesn\’t work! What you need is this 5-step action guide… and stop praising your children. Try to use \”encouragement\” instead. Some sisters find it incredible. It is understandable that punishment is ineffective. Opposite praise is also ineffective. The roads at both ends are blocked. Now, what else can we do as parents? Indeed, it seems that punishment and praise are either/or…
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\”I\’m too tired and don\’t want to study anymore\”, please give these 15 pictures to your children, they are more effective than any preaching
Today\’s children grow up in a wealthy environment and live a life without worries about food and drink. The only expectation their parents have for them is to study hard. But why should we study hard? But few parents can clearly explain what the meaning of studying is? They only know that studying is hard and tiring. They don’t want to study or go to school. They are dazzled by the glitz on the Internet and lose themselves. They begin to hate…
I cry as soon as I get an injection. How to deal with the medical trouble?
Every time a child goes to the hospital for an injection, it is an \”alternative symphony\” of crying sounds from children of all ages: the baby in the swaddling clothes is \”ouch~ouch~ouch~\”; the 2- and 3-year-old children are \”wow wah wah\” ; 4 and 5-year-old children are rap types, crying and negotiating with their parents: \”I don\’t want 5555, mom, let\’s go, let\’s go…\” The flu has been raging recently, and many children…
[What can I thank you for, my son] Every sentence touches my heart and touches millions of parents
This is a letter written by a mother to her son, and it is also a very touching and good article. There is a good mother in the article, and a good mother has a good son. Stop saying that all good children are born, absolutely not! That’s because the parents’ words and deeds have influenced the children’s behavior subtly. Thumbs up for the mother in the article, for the mother…
To all mothers: If you want to teach your children well, please live well yourself first
Last weekend, I attended a parent-child therapy class. After a mother came to the stage, she said that her daughter in elementary school had begun to refuse to study, and was clamoring to play games and mobile phones in various ways. No matter what she said, the line of fire always opened up and both parties ended up losing, and they entered a completely frozen dilemma. . After hearing this, the teacher just asked the mother how she would evaluate her daughter. This mom keeps complaining…
The stories of happy families are all similar, and there is never any dispute about right or wrong.
Home is a place for love, not reason. What happy families have in common is that they don\’t argue about right and wrong. Don’t argue with your parents. Confucius said: No matter how many times your parents give you advice, you won’t obey your will, but you will respect your parents without disobeying them, and you will work hard without complaining. If you have different opinions with your parents, you should persuade them gently. If your parents don\’t listen after trying several times, just let things take their own course. There is no need to argue about right and wrong. Liang Qichao…
Why is your child so timid and crying? Please stop labeling him.
A few days ago, a mother said that her child did not call anyone when meeting relatives and friends outside. Then the adult teased him: \”Why are you so timid?\” He turned to her seriously and said, \”Boys should be bolder and don\’t always control them. Look at my family.\” She felt very puzzled. A perfectly normal child, why is he defined as timid? Still so sure as a child…
A family should keep in mind the three ancestral precepts to avoid misfortunes in the family
When people reach middle age, they have more responsibilities and heavier burdens, and it is inevitable that they will feel a little inadequate. Jiang Wen once gave such a definition to \”middle age\”: Xiaomi Duo Chinese Classic Poetry and Famous Sentences of Kingdom Wanderings, a complete set of 5 MP3s \”Middle age is an age of laughter. You must not only please the elderly, but also be a good role model for your children. Constantly catering to the boss’s whims.” Middle-aged,…
Smart parents stand shoulder to shoulder with their children
On New Year\’s Eve, after watching TV and scrolling through Moments, someone posted something, \”The most classic line of this year\’s Spring Festival Gala: Educating children is not only a matter of school, but also inseparable from family education. Giving children the best love is not just about material things.\” Satisfaction, and more importantly, high-quality companionship.\” I watched that sketch show. The couple only cared about making money abroad, leaving their children alone at home…
Excellent children are inseparable from these 5 best education rules
Xunzi once said in \”Encouraging Learning\”: \”A gentleman is not different from others, and he is good at things and fake things.\” This means that there is no difference between smart people and ordinary people, they are just better at using external things. To succeed, we must learn to stand on the shoulders of giants. If we want to teach outstanding children, we must also learn to learn from the wisdom of our predecessors. Today, this article will share with you 5…