My friend Xiaoru is a substitute teacher in an elementary school. One time we had dinner together, and she told me that a new classmate was transferred to the school, but this classmate\’s reaction ability and ability to accept new things were very poor. At first, Xiaoru thought this classmate had intellectual problems. When Xiaoru reported the problem to the principal, the other party didn\’t believe it at all because the child was a friend of the principal…
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Parenting knowledge
After watching Hunan Satellite TV’s 2018 Youth Talk, I realized that Chinese parents are spoiled by their children.
Recently, Hunan Satellite TV\’s variety show \”Youth Talk\” has become popular on the Internet, and many children\’s \”complaints\” have become popular videos in WeChat Moments. For example, Yuan Jingyi, a young girl who has just entered junior high school, is complaining about her mother. She said her mother made her \”hurt\” because she always compared herself with being first in the class, first in the grade, first in the league…
Why can\’t Tihai help children become academic leaders?
There is a famous 10,000-hour theory in psychology: Anyone who practices in any field for more than 10,000 hours can become an expert in this field. Many people were inspired by this theory and began to train continuously. This theory has even become a strong support for the question sea tactics. So, scientifically speaking, does this theory hold up in practice? Why do some children…
A 6-year-old boy was forced to run 3 kilometers in tears. Frustration education is a scarce commodity in this era
Even if I cry, I have to finish the run by myself! A few days ago, I saw a video on Weibo: At the \”Running with Heart Life Festival\” in Shanghai, a 6-year-old boy cried and ran 3 kilometers. The mother insisted not to hug her, thinking that she couldn’t just “forget it” so easily, so she insisted that the child “run by himself even if he cried”! When the boy cried and said \”I\’m very tired\”, the mother responded: You can\’t just let it go…
Be careful of your \”just be happy\”, it will make your children suffer more in the future
A few days ago, an editor told me about the mainstream tutoring books on the market. Books that are suitable for parents to read are often translated from Europe and America. As many parents read, \”happy education\” comes first. It even formed a bad trend. What is scary now is that many families do not set rules for their children, only encouragement and no punishment. The child can\’t tell…
8-year-old boy touches young woman\’s butt, and his mother\’s actions leave everyone stunned
When you take your children out, you will inevitably encounter crowds of people. When people are crowded, no matter how careful you are, you will inevitably bump into others accidentally. As a parent, what should you do when your child accidentally touches someone else\’s body? I believe that the first reaction of many mothers will be to ask their children to apologize first. But if the other person is a young woman and she accuses your child of touching her sensitivities…
Behind every \”problem\” child is an unreliable parent
Sometimes, when we talk about raising children, some people will say, \”I don\’t know how to educate children at all.\” And this type of parents often have one of the biggest characteristics: they only see the shortcomings of their children and do not see any advantages. The more shortcomings you see, the more entangled and painful you will be. The reality is that behind every problem child, there is a parent with even more problems. I used to…
You are ruined by Chinese praise! How do parents educate their children correctly?
Minyi\’s father, as a straight man and a daughter-in-law, has always pursued Chinese-style \”praise education\” during Yibao\’s education. For example, when Yibao throws the garbage into the trash can by himself, Minyi\’s father would also say, \”Oh my God, our Yibao is so great!\” I really spent a lot of effort to change his bad habit. Let him understand: This is not to encourage the child to better…
A magical tool for taking your baby out in ten minutes. It’s worth watching for every mother.
Every time I take my baby out, it\’s a disaster. My husband is rushing me downstairs, and my baby is crying on the bed… I\’m so confused that I finally prepared the baby supplies, but just as I\’m about to go out, my baby starts to poop again… Ugh, my God! Is it so difficult to take a baby out? When I think of the nervous, anxious and messy expressions of mothers before taking their babies out, TaotaoG can\’t help but want to prepare a \”Bringing a baby out…\”
Another girl was killed on Didi: Daughter, you need to know these tricks of bad guys
I can’t believe that just three months later, another girl was killed in Didi Taxi. Yesterday afternoon, almost all the hot searches on Weibo were dominated by this murder case. According to reports, on the afternoon of August 24, the Yueqing police received a report that a girl who was taking Didi to Yongjia had her mobile phone turned off and lost contact. The case was solved early the next morning, but sadly, when it was found…