A true story: Where is the way out for children from poor families?

I was born in the early 1980s, and my ancestors have been farmers for generations. My father once talked about the fact that when rural classes were divided after liberation, our family was classified as poor and lower-middle peasants: a poor and innocent family, a glorious class that was immune to criticism. But this glory did not last long. With the birth of our three brothers and sisters, solid poverty and real difficulties weighed down…

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Is your child very introverted? Congratulations, he will have a great future

One weekend not long ago, I took Xiaonuo to play in the community. She was recently obsessed with scooters, spinning around and around in the open space. I sat next to her and watched her. After a while, Grandma Chenchen came with Chenchen. Chenchen was a little over three years old and was fairly familiar with us. Chenchen\’s grandma led him over and said, \”Call Auntie!\” Chenchen didn\’t call and hid behind her a little shyly…

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Zeng Guofan: A classic sentence to educate children well, say less, say less, say less

What many children resent most is their parents’ nagging. Educate children that \”talking\” cannot solve all problems. It will also arouse children\’s rebellious psychology and have the opposite effect. It is better to say less than to say more. Talk less and do more, speak less and listen more, speak less and wait more. Talk less, do more, and set an example. Parents are role models for their children, and they are the most important objects for their children to imitate when they are young. Parents\’ habits…

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This is the kind of kid who will be the most hopeless in 10 years! Don\’t blame me for not reminding you

I accidentally offended a cousin-in-law. She first scolded me in front of my mother for being \”unrelative\” and \”looking down on people.\” Then she said something wrong about me in front of relatives back home: \”Grandma is a jerk. She came to my house when she was a child. Come on, I\’ll give her some peach cakes to eat. Now that I\’ve become more capable, I don\’t even do a favor, I just look like a wolf…\” The cause of the matter is that her daughter Xiaohui graduated from college this year…

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Only after looking at Huang Lei’s daughter do we know how powerful the children planned by their parents are.

A few days ago, I took my daughter to learn Taekwondo. Passing by an XX children\’s elite education institution, the slogan was very eye-catching: \”You can\’t repeat your life, and growth requires planning.\” As a middle-aged mother, how sensitive is this topic? Who doesn\’t regret it at the beginning? For example, I have always regretted that I did not stick to my favorite Chinese and media majors and study science…

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It is better to teach your children this ability than to leave them with gold and silver.

My nephew, Xiao Xiong, had excellent grades since childhood. After the college entrance examination, he successfully entered a key northern university. His family was very happy and thought that everything would be worry-free from now on. But not long after entering, a new problem arose. Little Bear discovered that the school is really full of talents. There are many top students with good grades, versatile talents, and popular students. Little Bear is very motivated, but unfortunately he did not get the first place in the results. ,…

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Another child committed suicide because of these 5 words from his parents! Don\’t say it again

Do you still remember that some time ago, a Sichuan boy committed suicide after taking the college entrance examination? He even wrote in his suicide note: Either burn my body or throw it away. Don’t take me home! Why do you have so much hatred for your parents that you don’t want to go home after you die? Rui\’s mother carefully studied Xiaosi\’s suicide note and found that although Xiaosi repeatedly emphasized that he had low emotional intelligence, his parents\’ emotional intelligence was…

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How to praise someone to appear superior? 270 idioms that praise people, teach them to your children from an early age

Do you always envy others who are eloquent and witty when speaking? When you write your own articles, you always feel embarrassed about not having enough words to describe things? Don’t be afraid, Poetry Master has prepared an idiom “big meal” for you ~ the same meaning, multiple expressions, reserve some more idioms to help you speak smoothly! Appearance and body, the moon is shy of the flowers, the fish sinks and the wild goose falls, the hibiscus emerges from the water, the eyes are bright and the teeth are white, the beauty of the country is fragrant, the crane…

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Families with messy rooms cannot raise promising children

My son often throws his schoolbag away after school, and books are scattered everywhere. I was very angry every time I saw it. Once, because the books were scattered everywhere, I couldn\’t find them before going to school. I said angrily: \”Oh, I let you leave it everywhere. I really don\’t know who you learned this bad habit from.\” My son glanced at me and said, \”I didn\’t learn it from you, I just lost it.\” A few books,…

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