Outside the window, the night rain was pouring, and in the cafe, my best friend, with a sad face, told me about the bloody drama with her boyfriend. All of them were so familiar and typical that I reflexively tried to analyze the causes and consequences behind them. My best friend couldn\’t help but be shocked, saying that everything was right, and lamented that I suddenly had the fortune-telling ability like a charlatan. I smiled bitterly and said: When you become a mother, you will also…
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Parenting knowledge
Parents should be careful what they say to their children, and some words should never be said
Yesterday, I just finished dinner when I received a call from my sister. My sister said angrily on the phone: \”Daewoo is gone! What should I do? I looked everywhere but couldn\’t find him.\” I asked my sister what was going on. My sister said hesitantly: \”It wasn\’t because of my studies. I said something to him, and he snarled at me unconvinced. When I got angry, I scolded him, \’Why did I…
Parents’ different responses have such a huge impact on children’s personalities…
Many parents believe that boys are born to be brave. And boys do act more carefree, not as delicate as girls. If you touch a boy\’s hand, you will definitely find that the small palm is a bit rough. Xiao Xiaoyu\’s hand is like this. Sometimes I can feel it when I hold his hand. Because they often rub and grab on various things. who…
How to make the parent-child relationship more effective?
An essay by a primary school student was circulated on the Internet, entitled \”My mother is a useless middle-aged woman.\” The child\’s honest words are heartbreaking: My mother doesn\’t go to work. She usually likes to play cards and watch stupid TV series. She scolds her while watching, and sometimes she also cries. She can\’t do anything well, the food she cooks is terrible, the house is a mess, and everything is unclean…
If you love me, please tell me
In my memory, my parents are both very serious and serious people. Growing up, I have never heard them tell me that they like me, let alone tell me that they love me. In their eyes, \”love\” is like a forbidden word that they are ashamed to speak. In a small town like ours, I have never seen other parents express love to their children. when…
The principal of the High School Affiliated to Renmin University of China explained what education is?
Zhou Jianhua, the principal of Aerospace City School Affiliated to Renmin University of China, said this: 15 high-scoring baby education books are recommended, which can be called life textbooks. “Elementary school is about companionship, junior high school is about respect, high school is about letting go, and college and beyond are about appreciation. Parents should invest less energy in the future.\” This means that we should spend more time with our children when they are young, and when they grow up…
Participating in a charity sale in my son’s class, I saw three completely different types of parents.
A few days ago, I participated in a charity sale at my son’s school. Because there was something going on in my hometown, I didn’t go home until the day before the event. That night I looked at the items he had prepared for the charity sale. There are five or six books in total, and a few small toys. He chose the books well. \”The Magic School Bus\” and \”You Look Delicious\” were both taken out by him. And toys seem a bit too stingy…
There are only 4 words for comprehensive skills in parent-child relationship: moderate dependence
When I went to learn roller skating with my son, I met a boy who made me feel particularly distressed. The boy, who was about four or five years old, was swaying on roller skates and had fallen several times, but his mother did not help him. The boy said to his mother several times: \”Mom, can you help me? I\’m scared.\” But his mother said: \”Others skate by themselves. If I help you, how can you learn…
What should I do if my child shrinks when encountering difficulties? He or she may be suffering from learned helplessness.
My colleague in the office, Sister Zhang, has been yawning all the time recently and complained to us. After her children entered elementary school, they had to do their homework at 10 o\’clock every day, and it was 11 or 12 o\’clock when they finished washing and went to bed, so they felt that they didn\’t get enough sleep every day. . I was very puzzled and asked: \”Primary school students have so much homework? How can the teacher put so much pressure on the children?\” \”It\’s not that there are too many homeworks, but that Yaoyao sees…
How to cultivate children\’s good character and habits?
What kind of family makes what kind of children! The main factor affecting children\’s performance is not school, but family. Don’t be a parent who is knowledgeable but illiterate. Some people are highly educated, but not necessarily educated. If a parent doesn\’t know how to live well, doesn\’t know how to treat others well, or even doesn\’t know how to treat his own children well, no matter how high his academic level is, he is uneducated…