There are millions of parents in the world, and it is undeniable that there is a hierarchy between parents. Some parents use their wisdom and structure to lead their children to higher ground step by step. However, some parents use their narrow-mindedness and short-sightedness to hinder their children from moving forward and ruin their children\’s lives. The worst parents I have ever seen are those who often instill the following concepts into their children and destroy them by themselves. 365 short…
Category: Parenting knowledge
Parenting knowledge
How do students adjust their mentality after failing the exam?
Examinations can be a good test of students\’ learning effects and are a \”scale\” to measure students\’ mastery of knowledge. But exams are just a means, and improvement is the goal. Different students will have obvious emotional differences when facing failure in exams. Negative emotions will not only affect students\’ healthy mentality, but also have a negative impact on future learning. Therefore, for students who failed the exam…
A guide on how to create a healthy, beautiful, warm and happy family life
Family is the first school in life. Family education lays the foundation for healthy growth. Compared with school education and social education, family education has its own special basic rules. The fundamental feature of family education should be life education. One of the essentials of family education guidance should be to lead parents to realize the importance of life education and build a reasonable family life, so as to create healthy growth for their children…
How to have a good relationship with your children
Let children participate in setting rules. There is no rule without rules. This is the premise of family education. Many families have rules, but these rules are decided by mom and dad. Good rules must be formulated jointly by parents and children. Parents must have dignity and credibility, and start by setting rules in the family. When children and parents make rules together, when children and parents sit down to discuss and ask questions as equals…
You must tell your children as early as possible what a good friend is
We have always said that \”parents have the greatest influence on their children\”; in fact, the greatest influence on children is their friends. For children, friendship is an important nutrient for growth and an important part of social and emotional development. Most children\’s friendships are beautiful, but it is undeniable that in the world of children there is not only innocence, but also jealousy, aggression…
Parents’ methods and experiences in educating their children
From a broad perspective, primary education is the foundation of the entire educational undertaking. To improve the quality of the entire educational undertaking, we must start from primary education. From a small perspective, the primary school stage is an enlightenment education. The amount of knowledge learned is very small, accounting for only 3% of the 12-year study. It is a critical period for laying a solid foundation and an important period for shaping. Therefore, we must focus on cultivating habits and paying attention to children…
Parents who often deny their children have serious consequences
What is denial, and why can’t children be denied easily? The word \”negation\” is relatively abstract. We must first understand which words and deeds are negative words and deeds. After research, we believe that criticism, correction, beating, sarcasm, and urging high standards and strict requirements are all negative as long as they are frequent. It doesn\’t count once in a while. It hurts once in a while, but it will be soon…
How smart parents deal with spankings
Registration for many kindergartens is in progress, and I believe that the months of July and August will not be easy for mothers who have signed up. Facing a child entering kindergarten for the first time, most mothers will be extremely anxious and uneasy during these two months. Many mothers are vaguely worried about their children\’s life in kindergarten. Not only will their children cry and feel insecure when they first enter kindergarten,…
That’s right! The child is here to collect debts. I must have owed him five million in my previous life!
Every mother has fantasized about having a son or a daughter in the future. If you give birth to a daughter, you must dress her up as a beautiful little princess, put on a beautiful dress, let her learn piano and dance ballet, and become a beautiful and elegant girl. If you give birth to a son, you must raise him to be a handsome boy, learn to dance hip-hop, play the guitar, be polite and knowledgeable, so that you can bring him out with more face…
The order of family education must not be misplaced at any time
A reader forwarded me a true story from a mother. The couple had a daughter in middle age. The father at home is strict and conscientious in his behavior and adheres to family rules. He obviously wants to encourage his children, but his mouth turns into denial and belittling. And my mother, who has been outgoing and slightly strong since childhood, prefers to educate her children in this way: Either don’t do it, or do your best. Probably due to the influence of family atmosphere,…