If a child plays with his mobile phone too much and writes poorly, will this affect his brain and learning?

Many parents and teachers complain that today’s children’s handwriting is not as good-looking as the students of the past. is this real? This is indeed the case, and this has a lot to do with modern technology. Many pediatricians have noticed that due to the advent of tablets, children are beginning to be unable to hold a pen correctly. For example, under the National Health Service (NHS) in England…

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Will raising a baby for the elderly really ruin the child? !

\”My daughter is spoiled by her grandparents!\” One of my sisters complained at the party. \”People on the Internet say that being close to grandparents since childhood will have an impact on a child\’s personality. I still don\’t believe it. Now I really regret it!\” My daughter is 5 years old. She is usually taken care of by her grandparents. Now her temper is very bad. She rolls on the ground without buying toys. She cries and makes a fuss when there are no snacks…

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Why are American children neither beaten nor scolded? They are raised liberally and laissez-faire, but there are almost no disruptive naughty children?

There is a type of social news or topic in China that is always eye-catching, called \”naughty kids getting into trouble.\” Every once in a while, an unlucky kid will appear that breaks the limits of cognition and causes an uproar in public opinion: What the hell? Hot pot soup burns people\’s faces; peeing on the elevator; throwing bottles down from the 20th floor; washing the piano with Coke; and even causing various deaths… Yes…

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Mom, you look so scary when you\’re angry

A mother left a message saying, \”When I see my son doing things slowly, I feel angry. I can\’t help yelling at him every time. But I really regret it after yelling. I really don\’t know what to do. My son once told me before going to bed. She said, \’Mom, you look so scary when you\’re angry,\’ and I burst into tears instantly. Feeling sorry for my son became an outlet for my crazy emotions.\” Many parents have this…

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Tell your children: “Being able to lose” is more important than winning

My daughter Xinxin, who has just entered the kindergarten class, keeps coming home with one word coming out of her mouth recently – \”first place\”! I have never said this word to her. It must have something to do with her kindergarten life. I couldn\’t help \”gossip\”: \”Xinxin, what did you do to get first place in the class? English?\” \”No…\” \”What about shooting the ball?\” I thought of her recent \”shooting frequently\” at home…

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Li Yapeng has said so many sweet words, but these few words will bring you back to nature when it comes to raising children.

Since I became a fan of \”The Reader\”, even though I don\’t watch much TV, I have begun to look forward to the new program aired every weekend. Sure enough, after watching the program, I was filled with emotions and emotions, especially when Li Yapeng told the stories between him and his father, and between him and his daughter Li Yan. Li Yapeng talked about a detail between himself and his father that touched me very much. Sometimes his father would reply…

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5 things parents must do before their children turn 7 years old, the last one is especially important

Recently, the Indian movie \”Starting Line\” has become a hit. It tells the story of a pair of middle-class parents who battle with wits and laugh out loud in order to get their daughter into a kindergarten at a prestigious school. There is a sentence in the film that sparked heated discussion: This statement is a bit alarmist, but it reminds me of another documentary \”Seven Years in the Life\”. \”Seven Years in the Life\” records 14 British children over 49 years…

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Where does parental guilt come from? Attached coping strategies

Many parents feel guilty about the “sins” their children have committed. However, parental guilt affects not only the parents\’ own emotional well-being, but also their children\’s overall happiness levels. Guilt can lead parents to develop unhealthy parenting habits, such as compromising easily or overcompensating for their children. While these practices may temporarily alleviate parents\’ guilt, in the long run…

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Throughout their lives, 5 moments children will remember their parents the most

When the little deer was 2 years old, I decided it was time to teach her how humans wear socks. So, the old mother patiently demonstrated, and the little cub watched carefully. After the demonstration, she looked at me with a smile on her face, as if questioning whether I looked down on her. In fact, it turns out that, huh, stupid cub. The first time, she couldn\’t put all 5 toes in at the same time, so she always had to use…

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