Two months ago, I received a call from my son’s English teacher, saying that my son had been very unfocused in class these past few days. He was either whispering to his desk mates or those sitting next to him. I reminded him two or three times, but he still made the same mistakes. He also failed the quiz. When I got home, I threw my handbag on the sofa and rushed into my son\’s room. The son was startled and subconsciously put the things towards…
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Parenting knowledge
Qingdao red, yellow and blue foreign teacher molestation incident: Be sure to keep foreign garbage away from your children
On November 22, 2017, a vicious incident involving children occurred in the Red, Yellow and Blue Kindergarten in Xintiandi District, Beijing. More than ten parents of young children have reported to the police that teachers in the kindergarten are suspected of injecting needles, feeding drugs, molesting, abusing, and sexually assaulting students for a long time. The words the teacher threatened the children not to tell their parents still give me chills down my spine when I think about it now. \”I have a long…
Do parents need to deliberately train their children’s time management skills?
Now I have a 4-year-old and 2-month-old girl at home, and I would like to ask two questions about how to improve her time management skills. For example, if he wants to go out to play, shouldn\’t he change his clothes and shoes quickly? But he just whined and played with toys before going out instead of making preparations for going out. How to get your children to say goodbye to procrastination? 15 lessons on efficient time management to stimulate children’s inner drive mp3…
Please tell your children: Marriage must depend on family background
When looking at family circumstances, it’s not about whether his family is rich or powerful, but about his family’s conduct, lifestyle and family atmosphere. Because these are inseparable from his life, they will be relevant to your life. The way his parents make money determines his ability to make money. When you are in love, you can enjoy the romance; in marriage, you can live with tea, rice, oil and salt. From falling in love to getting married, eachother\’s love must…
What to do if your child is tired of studying
Children\’s learning is mainly affected by their emotions. If you want your children to learn well, you must let your children have a good learning mood. Everyone has \”seven emotions and six desires\”, and children will also be affected by emotions. When the mood is high, the child\’s thinking is active, the learning behavior is long-lasting, and the effect is better; when the mood is low, the child cannot be energetic when doing anything, and the learning effect will be…
Professor Li Meijin: If you don’t care about your child before he is 6 years old, you won’t be able to care about him when he grows up.
Li Meijin, a professor at China Public Security University, divides a person\’s life into several stages. Among them, a child\’s 3-6 years old is a critical period for character formation. During this period, parents should pay attention to the cultivation of their children\’s character. The most important point is to let their children learn \” Restrain your willfulness.\” \”An old professor came to me and said that my son asks me for things every day. He is 17 years old, and whenever he is not satisfied, he opens the window…
4 details on whether or not educating children will be successful
A few days ago, I went to pick up my kids from school. I saw an eight or nine-year-old girl waiting eagerly for her mother to pick her up, with a very aggrieved expression. After a while, her mother finally came, and the little girl immediately greeted her happily. As a result, when the mother saw the little girl, she started to question: \”Did you understand everything in class today? Are there any questions that you don\’t know about in the exam?\” The look on the little girl\’s face…
If the child does not endure hardship now, he will definitely have hardship in the future [The story is short but the truth is profound]
There is such a story. One autumn, a group of swans came to a small island in Swan Lake. They fly from the far north and prepare to spend the winter in the south. An old fisherman and his wife lived on the island. They were very happy to see this group of extraterrestrial visitors. They carefully fed the swans with chicken feed and small fish. Winter has come, but this group of swans has not continued flying south. Lake surface…
How to teach children to be self-disciplined
As long as there have been students, there will always be discipline challenges. However, the best teachers never allow these challenges to turn into problems. We found that they have two things in common: • They all have detailed and clear disciplinary rules. • They enforce these rules consistently. Sound simple? Yes. These teachers don\’t complicate things. he…
If you are a truly far-sighted person, be the guide for your children’s life.
There is a question on Zhihu: How difficult is it to educate children? Some netizens answered below: Those who are close will feel inferior, and those who are far away will feel resentful. This sentence said by Confucius is particularly accurate when it comes to educating children. Educating children is an art. Raising an outstanding child, although there are genetic factors, is inseparable from the contribution of family education. However, many parents, as their children\’s first parents…