In the games a child plays, his future is hidden

When your child says to you, \”I want to fly!\” how do you respond to him? I remember one time, my son was playing outside with his grandma. He said to another old woman, \”I\’m going to fly!\” \”You can\’t fly.\” \”Why?\” \”Because you are a person, not a bird.\” \”The mosquito is not a bird either, so why can… .

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Become a child who won’t grow up? Parents interfere too much, clap too little, and let go too late

In court, there are always enemies. But recently, a ridiculous \”strange case\” occurred in the New York State Supreme Court in the United States: a pair of parents sued their 30-year-old son. What\’s going on? It turns out that the 30-year-old son Michael has been living at home for eight years. In the past few months, the Rotondos have written several times asking him to leave their residence and become self-reliant…

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China\’s first remote phone kidnapping case, all parents should take warning

One morning in 2015, Mr. Feng from Xi’an received a phone call. A man claimed that he had kidnapped his son and asked Mr. Feng to prepare 2 million in cash to redeem him. At first, Mr. Feng thought it was a prank and immediately called his son, but his son never answered. Mr. Feng called his wife again. His wife told him that his son had taken the TOEFL test in the morning. Two people…

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If dads do this, their children will be better (a must-read for parents)

On June 8, Tian Liang announced on Weibo: \”(Sendie) came to participate in the world competition for the first time, and won bronze medals in javelin and running.\” At that time, I had a feeling: wow, she deserves to be the daughter of an Olympic champion. I still remember that in the program \”Where Are We Going, Dad\”, dad Tian Liang couldn\’t adapt to the rhythm of raising a baby for a while, and often seemed at a loss when faced with the crying Sen Die. But the show filmed several…

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When raising children, how many parents make it an arrangement to accompany them?

The grass is bearing its seeds, the wind is shaking its leaves, we are standing, not talking, it is very beautiful – \”In Front of the Door\” by Gu Cheng. What is companionship? Companionship means actually having someone listen when you want to talk, someone who will echo you when you want to share, someone who will be happy with you when you are happy, and someone who will comfort you when you are sad. Companionship is like a heater, as long as you are close to him…

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When school violence strikes, the FBI\’s 3-step guide will keep children and adults safe

Yesterday was such an outrageous and sad day! I just finished writing angrily in the morning. 4-year-old Yaoyao was slapped wildly by the girl\’s mother because she was fighting for a toy with a girl. I saw the violent incident at Shanghai World Foreign Language Primary School in the afternoon, and this can no longer be described as angry, but full of sadness! ! ! According to a report from the Shanghai police, at 11:30 noon on the 28th, Pubei Road Shiwai Primary School…

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When a child wakes up crying from a nightmare, how to guide the child to calm down?

At around 22:00 the night before yesterday, I was planning to sit on the sofa and watch TV for a while to rest. Suddenly my son\’s cry came over, and I heard him say in the room, \”I want to call grandma! Woohoo, I want to find grandma!\” I wondered for a while (it had been a long time since I woke up crying in the middle of my sleep to find someone. It\’s something. Maybe it\’s because I had so much fun at my grandma\’s house for two days last weekend…

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A mother who manages her emotions gently is a blessing to her children throughout their lives

Photo by Chen Zhuo Mother plays an important role in the growth of her child. The mother\’s words, deeds, and personality all affect the growth of her child. Some parenting experts once said that the mother\’s emotional stability is the most important factor affecting the child\’s mental stability. \”The most important thing for all children is the mother\’s emotion.\” A mother\’s emotions are like a river, only gentleness can nourish all things…

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My husband doesn’t have a baby, how to treat this disease?

\”I\’ve thought about divorce many times, but I\’m worried about my children.\” Little T asked me for help in answering questions, and his words were full of helplessness. She said that she encountered a husband who never participated in childcare, but also pointed out that this was not good and that was wrong: Every day when he came home from work, the man would lie down on the bed after dinner and look at his mobile phone. The children wanted to play with him. He ignored… There was something wrong with the child…

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