As the saying goes, without rules, there is no circle. But will all parents set red lines for their children that cannot be touched in their lives and cultivate their children\’s sense of rules from an early age? Not everyone is a social person. In society, we need to abide by various rules, establish a \”rules awareness\”, and be less ignorant and fearless. The various rules spread throughout human society are for the better…
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Parenting knowledge
The more sensible the child, the more pitiful he is? The more \”bear\”, the happier?
It\’s very simple, the reason why sensible children are unhappy. Either the standard for judging \”sensible\” is wrong, or the adults around him are too ungrateful. Zhihu asked a question, are sensible children happy? 4,000 replies, the top 5 most liked replies are all: unhappy! There are many reasons. Because of family reasons, I am afraid that my parents will be unhappy, so…
What this father did when his child stole something was amazing
Recently, a short video has been widely circulated on the Internet. A little boy stole chocolate from the mall, his father\’s reaction. Think about it, if this happened to us, our parents would at most give a few words of education and tell their children not to do it next time. But what this father did gave us a lot of inspiration. First of all, let the children admit their mistakes by themselves instead of harshly blaming…
Why are children disobedient? You will understand after reading these cartoons!
Before Rooney was five years old, I always thought that I was doing a pretty good job as a mother, and my communication with Rooney had always been smooth. However, after giving birth to my younger brother this year, I spent less time with him. It just so happened that he also entered the stage of being both attached to his mother and wanting to be with her. An independent and \”polar\” six-year-old, he challenged me again and again and I became increasingly impatient with him, so we had constant conflicts and I was…
What changes does reading bring to children?
What changes does reading bring to children? I think parents who value reading will have their own answers. We Chinese don’t like reading, so the road to promoting reading is always difficult. Bai Yansong once said, \”Chinese people are so reduced to the point where they have to promote reading?\” He mentioned one thing: \”CCTV has done a public service announcement about reading. It has been doing it for the past few years…
Zhou Yuru, a doctor of early childhood education: Parents, relax, your child is normal
(Photo by Huang Jianbin) Unless preschool children have obvious developmental disabilities, they are not yet old enough to be diagnosed with any disability. Excessive self-checking may have the opposite effect. Parents often come to me to ask me questions about their children. In the past, parents were busy with work and life and ignored some warning signs of their children\’s development. By the time they discovered something was wrong, it was already too late…
I have a good idea for every child who is afraid of losing
My classmate Tang Xiaoan is not outstanding in terms of looks and not top-notch in terms of academic qualifications. I don’t even hear how close she is to her boss, but she always gets the respect she deserves, and she has been promoted and paid more. The reason is that compared to other colleagues, she has an extra drive to not be afraid of losing. Once, a client accidentally said that he was busy discussing a cooperation project with someone recently. Xiao An lost no time in…
The more children are not allowed to do things, the more they do it? Let’s talk about the power game in the parent-child relationship
Some time ago, a friend and I talked about something: Her 3-year-old daughter, who was already using the toilet, peed her pants one day while watching cartoons at home. While cleaning the floor, my friend muttered to her daughter to remember it next time. Remember to go to the toilet. That night before going to bed, my daughter peed her pants again. My friend was going a little crazy now, so he talked some sense into his daughter and told her to remember to do it next time…
Mom, are you Santa Claus? This is the most convincing answer I\’ve ever seen
When Christmas was only two weeks away, my daughter started looking for Christmas socks at home. But the day is approaching, and the socks are still not found. Every night when I got home, I heard her nagging: Mom, if there are no socks, will Santa Claus not give me a gift? In fact, the baby understands very well. She has tested me more than once this year and said: Mom,…
When your child is scolded by outsiders for stealing things or doing bad things, will you unswervingly protect him?
A few days ago, I read a short story with Zai Zai, and I was deeply moved after reading it. Because Zai Zai needs to write a review, when we look at this story in light of his real life, I feel even more frightened. The story is \”Bile and the Saber\” from Yin Jianling\’s novel \”Listen with an Ear\”. It tells the story of a child named Bile who has a saber. He originally planned to use the saber as a New Year\’s Day…