A mother came to ask a question: When her child gets angry, he will say all kinds of dirty words, \”Mom, I hate you! I hate you! Go to hell!\” What should I do? Would Little D also say such harsh words? In fact, all the children in the world look alike, and Little D has a lot of harsh words. He said to me, \”I hate you!\” When fighting with children, he also said, \”I want…
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Parenting knowledge
Smart parents never show off these three things to others. This is wisdom.
When a child achieves success, has a promising future, and gets good grades, parents have an inner desire to announce the good news and want to share it with everyone. This is also normal psychology. Close relatives or friends will congratulate you, but showing off too frequently may cause some people discomfort. Parents who show off their achievements may want to be recognized by others…
What is family relaxation? This is the best answer I\’ve ever heard
Families with a sense of relaxation bring a positive attitude to their children, and relaxation is also a kind of wisdom in education. So what is family relaxation? The following sentence is the best answer I have ever heard: \”Relaxation means not caring about trivial matters. When my mother was cooking, the vegetables were fried and salty. My father said, \”I just want to eat steamed buns.\” There are no steamed buns in such a good dish. How?\” \”So, Dad…
Chinese-style education will not work without reform
Because of a little girl, China’s exam-oriented education was once again whipped and tortured. Recently, a small place called Lianshui became popular just because of a 17-year-old female technical secondary school student, Jiang Ping. The local cultural and tourism department also understands traffic well, and has adopted the slogan “A small river is rich in academics.” In the 2024 Alibaba Global Mathematics Competition, 801 students advanced to the finals,…
Don’t let our anxiety and over-education cause children to lack basic living abilities
In 1999, Jim Hancock, a sociologist and veteran church youth worker, pointed out in his book Raising Adults that if we think we are raising children, what we end up with is children; instead, he urged, our task is to educate adults. sounds…
If you cannot do these three things, I suggest you not take your children out to play during the summer vacation (recommended for all parents to read)
I was chatting with my best friend over the weekend, and she was busy making plans for taking her children to play during the summer vacation. I asked her with some confusion: \”Didn\’t you have a bad experience with your children last year and say you won\’t take them to travel again before they are 10 years old?\” Last year, my best friend took her 6-year-old son Taotao to Yunnan to play, and the itinerary was The schedule was quite full, but Taotao couldn\’t get out of bed on the third morning, saying he was tired from playing…
Children dawdle, procrastinate, and have no sense of time, just because their parents have not done this well
There is a long-term hot topic on Zhihu: When it is time to go to bed, and the children have not finished their homework, will you let your children stay up late to finish their homework? Children who choose homework will not get enough rest, and children who choose sleep will not be able to complete their homework, and more homework will pile up the next day! How to solve this \”dead game\”? The new angle proposed by the author of today’s article may give us some inspiration. Every…
What skills are good for girls to learn, with high employment rate and good working environment?
As competition in society becomes increasingly fierce, most students hope to find a stable job after graduation to avoid unemployment immediately after graduation. When everyone fills in the college entrance examination application and chooses a school and major, they must consider all aspects in advance. Teacher Xiaoyu receives a large number of inquiries from parents every day, and a large number of them are planning volunteers for their own girls. Parents\’ concerns about girls\’ future development…
After 6 years of primary school running, here are the heartfelt words of the parents: 6 “musts” that you must keep in mind
Finally, 6 years of running with me in elementary school are over! In the past two days, my son has asked from time to time: \”Mom, why don\’t I feel like I am leaving after graduation?\” I told him: As long as you feel happy and joyful when you recall your six years of primary school life, then it is worth it, and the rest is not important. Graduation is not an end, but a node. I thought about it carefully. Apart from being happy and joyful, I spent six years studying with me in primary school. In fact…
Li Meijin: On the road to parenting, children have 5 bad habits, making it difficult for them to be successful when they grow up.
On the road to parenting, family is not only their first classroom, but also the key environment that shapes their character and habits. Some habits formed in childhood, if not properly guided and adjusted, may affect the child\’s future development. The ancients said: \”Wood can be carved, but the disease will be cured; gold can be cast, but the disease will be stained. The wood is molded, the gold will be stained, even if there are good craftsmen to install it? That\’s why…