The most difficult decision faced by poor families is whether to devote their limited time to making money or to accompany and educate their children? The slightest difference between parents\’ ideas and information can lead to huge differences. Although some parents often accompany their children, their children do not perform well; on the contrary, some parents can make money and their children grow up well. What is true high-quality companionship? …
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Parenting knowledge
When your child swears or speaks cruelly, your first reaction is very important
A mother came to ask a question: When her child gets angry, he will say all kinds of dirty words, \”Mom, I hate you! I hate you! Go to hell!\” What should I do? Would Little D also say such harsh words? In fact, all the children in the world look alike, and Little D has a lot of harsh words. He said to me, \”I hate you!\” When fighting with children, he also said, \”I want…
Smart parents never show off these three things to others. This is wisdom.
When a child achieves success, has a promising future, and gets good grades, parents have an inner desire to announce the good news and want to share it with everyone. This is also normal psychology. Close relatives or friends will congratulate you, but showing off too frequently may cause some people discomfort. Parents who show off their achievements may want to be recognized by others…
What is family relaxation? This is the best answer I\’ve ever heard
Families with a sense of relaxation bring a positive attitude to their children, and relaxation is also a kind of wisdom in education. So what is family relaxation? The following sentence is the best answer I have ever heard: \”Relaxation means not caring about trivial matters. When my mother was cooking, the vegetables were fried and salty. My father said, \”I just want to eat steamed buns.\” There are no steamed buns in such a good dish. How?\” \”So, Dad…
Chinese-style education will not work without reform
Because of a little girl, China’s exam-oriented education was once again whipped and tortured. Recently, a small place called Lianshui became popular just because of a 17-year-old female technical secondary school student, Jiang Ping. The local cultural and tourism department also understands traffic well, and has adopted the slogan “A small river is rich in academics.” In the 2024 Alibaba Global Mathematics Competition, 801 students advanced to the finals,…
Don’t let our anxiety and over-education cause children to lack basic living abilities
In 1999, Jim Hancock, a sociologist and veteran church youth worker, pointed out in his book Raising Adults that if we think we are raising children, what we end up with is children; instead, he urged, our task is to educate adults. sounds…
If you cannot do these three things, I suggest you not take your children out to play during the summer vacation (recommended for all parents to read)
I was chatting with my best friend over the weekend, and she was busy making plans for taking her children to play during the summer vacation. I asked her with some confusion: \”Didn\’t you have a bad experience with your children last year and say you won\’t take them to travel again before they are 10 years old?\” Last year, my best friend took her 6-year-old son Taotao to Yunnan to play, and the itinerary was The schedule was quite full, but Taotao couldn\’t get out of bed on the third morning, saying he was tired from playing…
Children dawdle, procrastinate, and have no sense of time, just because their parents have not done this well
There is a long-term hot topic on Zhihu: When it is time to go to bed, and the children have not finished their homework, will you let your children stay up late to finish their homework? Children who choose homework will not get enough rest, and children who choose sleep will not be able to complete their homework, and more homework will pile up the next day! How to solve this \”dead game\”? The new angle proposed by the author of today’s article may give us some inspiration. Every…
When dealing with adolescent children, parents should have \”fairy thinking\”
During dinner a few days ago, I casually asked Cheng Zi about something he was very concerned about and how it was going recently. Unexpectedly, Chengzi encountered some little trouble in this matter, so I helped him analyze it and give him some ideas. Obviously, for Orange, my perspective is very helpful to him. After a pause, Chengzi talked about another thing that had been bothering him recently. This matter is a little more complicated…
Are all top academics self-taught? I believe you!
There is a question on Zhihu that has been watched by more than 1.1 million people and answered by more than 1,000 people: I interviewed many top academics and they all said that they were self-taught and did not attend tutoring classes. Do you believe it? This question is very interesting. The role of the teacher is missing in it. Everyone has acquiesced that just listening to the teacher’s lectures is not enough. Either self-study or take tutoring classes. And those top academics turned out to be self-taught. If they don’t…